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Just my rant for the day.
So my mother decided to take me to a therapist for the first time today to help me quote "get out of that transgender phase."
The first thing the lady asks my mom is who your daughter to you? So I was already agitated because she knew the situation and that she should have said son instead of daughter. I correct her but she continues to piss me off.
My mom answers with, "She's my straight daughter, I miss my princess."
I hate when parents of FtM trans pull that dumb--- princess card. And no, mother, I am not your straight daughter, I'm your pansexual son and you know that.
The rest of therapy went on with me correcting the lady when she used the wrong pronouns, which was everytime she used a pronoun, just for her to roll her eyes and continue using she/her/daughter.
We left and I have nothing left to say to my mother. It's been three months, you know I'm your son not your daughter, a he and not a she.
It makes no sense that someone can go up to a dog and say, "Aw, shes so cute!" And the owner sheepishly reply, "It's a he." And the owner will apologize and start using the right pronouns. Why can't you do that with f---ing people if you can do it with dogs?
And I'm done hearing how pronouns don't matter. Pronouns are the world to me and any other trans person. I literally flinches everytime my mother or the therapist used female pronouns for me.
So that's my rant.
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Haven't seen you in a long time x3 I'm sorry 'bout that. They should respect what you want. Just so I don't get confused and call you by a name you no longer use, what's your name?
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I've been getting on a little bit more lately. Long time no see, Zane. My name's Louis.
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Louis. What a lovely name for a lovely boy. Can you message me on Kik so we can talk there?
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Thank you. Of course, darling. I might be a bit slow at responding because I'm going to be on there and on here at the same time, but I'll make sure to message you.
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No problem. Thank you.
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You're very welcome, Zane.
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Once again, I'm sorry you have to deal with that.
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Not to worry. It's nothing that I can't deal with for four more months. How are you?
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Oh no, is she trying to do that "Pray the gay away" complex?
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She's doing both that and "wash the trans off."
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People like that are so ignorant. I wish they would understand. I'm fine, and you?
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I've been trying to figure out what is so likeable about you, and I think it's your optimistic ways. You seem seem so sad and so happy at the same time, Louis.
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Some people just like to be more under educated and over opinionated. Bit shaken up, but otherwise fine.
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Some parents are so dumb sometimes. It's not a phase, it's just who they are and that's what they're comfortable with. They just get angry and frustrated when something conflicts their beliefs, which is homosexuality and transgenders which doesn't harm them at all.
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