So let's figure this out.
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Thread Topic: So let's figure this out.
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I genderfluid, though I really don't give a s--- what pronouns people use, and refer to myself with female ones 75% of the time.
However, I prefer the name Andi, because it's gender-neutral.
And my best friend, Julianna, refuses to called me that, because, "I'm used to calling you Brandi."
I've told her how it made me feel, and asked her to at least try, and she still refuses to, and gets mad at me whenever I bring it up.
Yet, she's all for gender acceptance, but only with other people. Not me. I mean, she'll use the pronouns, but for some reason, she refuses to call me Andi.
How do I convey my extreme anger of this without causing a fight between here and I? -
I can see where she's coming from. If she's called you something for so long its hard to change. With that said, I don't know hoe to help without it becoming a fight.
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I can't see how to express this without her potentially getting angry either, if she seems stubborn about it. Sorry .~.
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The thing is, she throws a fit when I slip and call Camden by his birth name. And I'm not doing it intentionally.
She refuses to even attempt to call me by it. -
Then maybe the next time you slip with Camden you could bring up that she doesn't call you by your prefered name ever.
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yeah I'll try
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