ok that's it!
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Thread Topic: ok that's it!
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Don't run away. Trust me. I've debated it for many years, and at one point I packed a bag. Where will you go? How will you eat? What will you do about money? A job? Someone can murder, kidnap, or rape you.
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1) I get too nervous
2) their friends always get in the way trying their best to keep me away from them
3) I just can't I never seem to make sense in whst I'm saying and when I do it's always a metaphor or a song
yeah they punish me for the littlest stuff and they punish me for stuff they never do to other kids
look I already traied. and it hasn't got any better. that was two months ago
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SummerSnowball NewbieI learned this trick. Anytime anything bad happens, get a piece of paper out, and make a list of the GOOD things that happened to get to this point. For example.
For your parents to argue,
They have to
1 exist. You can't have arguing parents if you have no parents.
2 love each other enough to even be together at all
3 you get the idea. -
4 maybe he doesn't.
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that stuff is obvious and I have tried thinkimg of good things like that
made me feel worse, actually. -
So, because you get nervous, you can't tell your friends anything, and that makes you get mad at them? Text them, call them, email them, or wrote them a letter.
Like what?
Then tell them that it hasn't gotten any better. -
SummerSnowball NewbieDon't think about the people you know, think about the people you haven't met yet, maybe you will make someone else's life better in the future, you did mine. Really, I'm not making it up. I was in a deep depression, and you made a joke on here that brought me out of it. If it weren't for you, I don't know WHAT would have happened. Really alex. I promise that you're important.
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When I was in fifth grade and having my stupidity phase, I liked this girl and we were together for 9 months until she dumped me, and I was saying there was no point to life and I was gonna kill myself and all that other stupid s---. But you know how long it took me to get over it?
A single day. That's also the part in my life where I finally figured out this: WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU DOES NOT MATTER. If you want to be happy, be yourself. If idiots are bullying you, say, "f--- them, I'd rather be me than them." Almost everything that could happen to you has a bright side to it. You just have to realize it.
See? I'm trying to help. -
SummerSnowball NewbieListen, I need to get some sleep. I will pray for you, just like I do for my friends. Guys, and alex? Just try to hold out a bit longer, if not for yourself, then for all of the people on this thread. Please alex.
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1. friend. singular.
2. that's not what makes me mad at them just...well I can't say it here...
3. can't text them they only have an ipad and I have a samsung falaxy those can't text
4. they don't have their own phone so when I call their home phone their family never lets me talk to them
5. tried emailing; somehow doesn't work
6. letters take too long getting thorough
like tappimg my foot (very softly and on usually a carpet floor) or tappimg my pencil on my head (again not enough to distract ) it helps me think faster
then they'd get mad at me thinking that I had given up and was no longer trying -
So I guess that helped nada?
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just a joke? thats all that did it? man you must've been luckyyy.
kobra don't make me think about my fifth grade that entire year was s---
dude I'll try to hang on as much as I can to the sanity I have left -
You said them, so I assumed you had more than one friend. Why can't you say it here? Letters are suppose to take long, so that way, you can have time to think about what you're writing, and then in those three days in between you sending it and them receiving it, you can pretend like nothing has happened before they read it.
Tapping can be distracting....
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SummerSnowball NewbieListen, you just need to take a break, get your mind off of this stuff, play a video game or something, and come back here tomorrow. Don't do anything until then. Just let it go for now. You said that they think you're giving up, prove them wrong. Ok, I'm REALLY leaving now. I pray I'll See you tomorrow alex. Bye.
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yeah, but the thing is is when people say stuff like "there's always a bright side" it just makes me more sad because then I get reminded of how negative I am and then I start thinking on how stupid I look to people, and it just returnsme to feeling like crap.
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