Ask Miss Answer Genius
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One more question Mrs. genius.
(Credit to wolfie) This guy who liked me in class 7th and 8th but I hated him!!! He was annoying. Now, I am in 9th and I heard that he liked a girl from 9th in another section. I thought now he don't like me!!!!! Yay! But, Now sometimes i observed him staring at me. It's annoying. Gimme an advice. I never liked him. I am ignoring him from 7th grade. -
Gracious,
This can happen a lot in a family. My dad mostly doesn't understand me. Neither does my mom. They're a lot older than the average parent, so that may have something to do with it.
When you say your mom doesn't understand your feelings, do you mean that she is confused about what you think, or that she is constantly disagreeing with you?
If the problem is the first option, I would advise that you try to explain your feelings to her. Try to let her understand rather than you understand her. If she doesn't understand, keep trying.
If the problem is the second option, I would allow her to think that she is right. Finally, when she says something you disagree with so much you have to speak up, talk to her. Tell her about all the times that she has disagreed with you and you don't think she was right. Talk to her so that you can come to an agreement.
I've experienced both of these things and done what I suggested. It worked for me, but it may not work for you. I'm very sorry that you're mother doesn't understand you and your feelings. Start spending more time with her so you can get used to each other.
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Yes, She is constantly disagreeing. She gets angry with me every time.
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Thank you Mrs. genius. I'll try :)
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Gracious,
I am experiencing something like this right now. There's a guy in my English class who acts like a smart know-it-all. I used to think he liked me, until he told me he liked my best friend a little. I still think he likes me.
Anyway, back to your problem. One solution is that you could continue ignoring him. Or you could have an unofficial staring contest with him when he starts looking it you. That way he'll probably stop.
But what I really think is that you're jumping to conclusions. Just because he's staring at you doesn't mean he still likes you. Maybe he's staring off into space, happening to look at you. Wait a couple weeks, and if this odd behavior continues, notify me and I'll see what advice I can give.
Here's something that I've been thinking about. You actually like this guy, but you don't want to admit it to yourself. Remember the guy I told you about at the beginning of this advice letter? I have some feelings for him too; I've been ignoring it.
Good luck with your staring contest,
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One more thing Gracious. Just call me Ari. I just used Miss Answer Genius as a pen name. Like all those newspaper advice columns.
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Wolf Heart,
The best thing to do for now is ignore him. Don't show any special interest in him to encourage him. If he realizes you don't like him and probably never will, he will move on to another girl.
Best of luck,
Miss Answer Genius/Ari -
What? I like him? I rather like my enemy not him. I hate him. He have no personality. He is just annoying. See, i took admission in this school from 7th grade. I never had any feelings for that boy. After the half year went away, A girl told me that she thinks that the guy likes me... I told her that I don't think there's something like that. But there was, He actually liked me. When I got the shocking news, I wanted o slap that boy, But I can't. Previously, My school transport was my school bus. But, he was also in that bus. I leaved the bus because I had a cheap feeling and I hated to go to school with a bus . He is like a cheap boy. I hate her. Now, I go to school with an auto-rickshaw. Plz don't ever say this that I like him. At least you try to understand me! I share all my feelings with my best frnd and you are one of them. I really hate him. If you ever said that, I will not talk to you!
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I'm really sorry Gracious. I was just assuming something. I'm sorry to have upset you. Please don't not talk to me. I would hate to lose one of my best friends on here.
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Are you mad at me?
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Yes, A little. But, I don't want to lose a best frnd. Friends are valuable. Frnds again?
And I don't care for that guy. In fact, It's my last year in this school... So, Never mind the things he had done. -
My best guy friend is jealous of my boyfriend :(
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Yes, friends again.
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