Heph's thread
- Locked by Hephaestuschild on Dec 10, '20 10:57amReason: Making New Official Thread
Thread Topic: Heph's thread
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Trying to decide on names for the characters is hard
Account names I mean
I don't wanna be cliche and have it be their actual names
Hmmm -
Can I help?
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Could just give Ollie's account a preformer name bc
That's
That's his whole character he's big in the errr, exotic dancing world. -
Oh uh, thanks but it would be too much trouble for me to try and explain the characters to get help, but I appreciate the offer.
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Omdbdkdbd I just realized I can use OlliePop
That's perfect -
Now I just need to put in the effort to get a pic and make his account ugh
Maybe after a nap -
Hi!
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Was gonna lay down and try to sleep but then I thought about how thoughtful they were and concerned with my health a few weeks ago and how that could of all been a lie and started crying and now I can't stop.
Haaah. I don't think they even realize how much they've destroyed me. I probably deserve it. -
Do you want to talk about it more in depth? Idk if ranting makes you feel better, but I am personally concerned for you (and I'm not saying that just bc)
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It's rlly complicated
And it's. I'm not even mad at them I'm mad at me and it's destroying me ig.
I want to continue being friends with them but they called me out in some things that, while true, I wasn't even aware I was doing and if I had known I would of stopped. But they never said anything. But, they were true, so I'm clearly at fault, and if I were to mention they never said anything, I'm victim blaming against someone I care for, and I just, i can't.
It's a lot deeper than that but, I don't want to share all of the details, it's really heavy and ugh. -
The first step to fixing a broken relationship is taking the criticism and trying to better yourself from it. It's hard to accept that there are things you were doing that weren't "good" and that nobody brought it up until it was "too late".
I would reach out to them and tell them that you're sorry for not recognizing the things you were doing. Tell them that you'd like to work on them, that you would have done something sooner if you had known. If they're truly your friend, they will understand. Healing and growth isn't an overnight thing, and it's hard to self-analyze. It really is.
And for all I know, the things they pointed out about you aren't even all that bad— maybe they're toxic, I don't know— but I definitely think that you can find a way to talk without looking like a victim. Good friends won't make it a competition to see who got hurt the worst by a situation. -
I just realized how confusing what I said is because they refers to the person AND the things that were said. I hope I make sense
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I guess my main point—
You deserve to be hurt. Because I don't know enough about the other person involved to know the full picture, I can't say whether or not they're wrong. But I can say that I think you guys can make it work, if that's what you want & if it's healthy for both parties. -
NOT TO BE HURT, BUT TO FEEL HURT/BETRAYED OH GOD
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I fell asleep last night but thank u for listening to me and offering advice.
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