People, I need to know what to say to my friend....
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Thread Topic: People, I need to know what to say to my friend....
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My best friend, I think I talk about her a lot, I don't know, you can be the judge, we've started high school. And of course there's boys and she's always been more outgoing than me and right now she has about five guys that like her. The ones that she absolutely has no interest in, she tells me, but she acts like all the dramatic c---s that she promised me she wouldn't be.
*in Science*
H.: "Sierra, ohmygod, he's in our group."
Me: "Ben?"
H.: "Yeah, this is going to be realllyy awkward."
Me: "Because he likes you and you don't like him? Yep, real awkard."
H.: "No, what if he tries talking to me?!"
Me: "Just get on the subject, then tel him you don't like him."
H.: "It's not that simple!"
Oh but it f---ing could be >.>
She had sophmore ask her out, he's really nice and probably one of the nicer guys I've seen her date. Then he asks her if she's going to kiss him. She's already had her first kiss, so I don't know what the big deal is. Just tell him 'I don't want to, yet' but NO, she BREAKS UP WITH HIM FOR THAT REASON!
Wednesday, Halloween, she blows me and A. off to help tutor her ex-boyfriend. Her mother made her, so it a valid excuse. Except when she comes to school the next day and says she kissed him. And in the hallways I see her hugging J., the guy she went out with for two days.
Plus, she went out with a real douche bag for a not even a week.
WHAT THE f--- IS HAPPENING TO HER!
She's turning into a grade-A c---. Sorry this is so long, but what can I tell her? She wants a real relationship but she can't find one because of all this! I want to help her :/ -
Tell her, "I'm done with your drama, if you wanna be a whore, go ahead. Just stop talking to me about it."
That's the best way to help her. Show her it's affecting her friendships. -
SilverBlueMoon NoviceWhat Theresa said, except perhaps without calling her a w---e, as that does tend to offend some people.
Tell her that you think that she's being unreasonable. Expain to her how the things she's doing annoy you. Tell her that if she doesn't change, you'll pull away from her. -
Explain to her that if she really wants to find that one person, she's got to stop looking. She should know that dating loads of people might give her a bad name ._.
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