Please help.
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Thread Topic: Please help.
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A friend of mine just told me that he likes me. He's the third person this month to do so (none of these three people know each other, so it's not a joke. Besides, guys have been that way towards me for a few years now). I don't like any of them and I don't want to hurt their feelings. I already politely declined all three of them, but I just want to know how to make sure guys won't constantly fall for me. It's not like I flirt constantly. I fail epically at flirting. I'm just tired of all these liking me when I don't like them.
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If you don't want guys to like you, I would suggest making yourself as unappealing as possible. Put on weight, stop shaving and showering, wear unflattering clothes, stop wearing makeup.
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LOL tongue xD
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I don't wear makeup and all of my clothes are mostly old t-shirts and jeans/sweatpants, I have severe acne, and I have gigantic glasses.
They say they like me because I'm "not like other girls" and "actually care about academics."
Really, the thing is they all tell me they have crushes on me only days after we meet. For instance, one guy said, "I know we just met, but you are amazing. I have developed a crush on you." Also, all of the guys are really clingy. I honestly don't view myself as attractive in any way.
I know this might sound weird, but the reason I keep telling everyone no is because I'm not interested in dating. It doesn't sound appealing to me. I don't want to deal with the drama that comes with it. I would just hangout with other girls, but most the girls I know are really annoying. -
They like you because guys have this idea that girls like you have low self-esteem. Basically they just want to jerk you around. The best thing you can do is call them out on it.
I'm not really interested in dating, either. I'm such a neurotic mess I just shouldn't be in a relationship. -
Thanks, tongue. That really means a lot to me. You're the only person I've asked who has given me a straight answer.
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