Since there are none here.
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Thread Topic: Since there are none here.
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Don't change who you are for a guy! You want to date a guy who likes you for you. I know this is really short, but this is all I can say.
And plus I have a similar problem.I hoped that helped in dome way. -
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Right, how should I say this?
I've always found this boy from my class very intriguing, I mean he's different from anyone I've ever met before. He and I talk at times, he makes me laugh, but I don't know how else to react really. He's told me a bit about himself, but I never find the courage to open up to him, about me, about how I feel. Every time I see him, I know in my heart that he is special, though I fear rejection, humiliation, and eventually getting hurt by him, I don't know why though.
Sometimes I think he likes me, other times I think he's just messing around. I want to be friends, but I can't seem to open up, no matter how hard I try.
This has been going on for over 3 years.
Last October, my year group went on a school trip to Germany for a week, and coincidentally he and I went on that trip. It was lovely, I actually felt okay to be around him, nothing held me back, and I finally gathered up enough courage to ask him out and was planning to do so, until it happened.
On that Tuesday night, after dinner, I was looking over at the table he sat with his guy friends, and I saw them hushing together, and looking over at my table. I'm sure I must have blushed very much.
Anyway, when he came over, so did his friends, tagging along behind him, urging him to something.
So, he asked this other girl on my table out.
He didn't even glance at me.
I don't know how I even handled it properly, I felt so betrayed, even if I had no reason to. I remember crying the following day, before bed. I hadn't understood it was because of him until only recently.
8 months later, in July of this year, I found that the two broke up. I was overwhelmed in joy.
The thing is: I WANT him to be my boyfriend, I really do, but I don't know. I just don't know any more. Should I ask? Should I try to make it work? I don't think I can afford to wait for so long again.
Ever so sorry for the huge post... -
Just tell him how you feel about him, he may or may not feel the same way, you never know.
If he's just getting out of a relationship, I suggest waiting a bit about telling him how you feel.
If you get impatient, ask one of his close friends (it would help if his friend didn't know you very well,) to point to you (make sure you aren't looking at them, or making I contact) and ask the boy you like,"Hey, do you like that girl? The one with,(your color) hair?
I hope this helps. And the long paragraph explained the situation more detailed, so I gave you the best options and suggestions I know. -
Oh, I see, thank you for the advice, I realise I should have probably told him sooner. I guess I will talk to him once school starts in September.
Sometimes I get the feeling he only asked that girl out because his friends made him. I know this is very radical, but I can't help feeling it's true.
Thank you for your time, I really appreciate it :) -
SilverBlueMoon NoviceI think that I might just be the worst friend in the world.
Six months ago my best friend told me about the boy she liked. I'd never even heard of him before.
Over the summer, I met this boy of hers. We clicked instantly. I tried as hard as I could to keep my feelings for him strictly in the friend zone. I was willing to stick to this forever, but then, he asked me for my telephone while I was with my friend. She said it didn't matter, but I could feel the hurt in her voice when she spoke.
I should hate this boy, but I cannot. Because, in a way, I'd have to hate myself too. I honestly don't know what the boy saw in me. The two of us are (mentally) almost identical. (Our political views are more like sunset and midnight, though.)She's the blonder, gray eyed, slightly more violent version of me.
I want to shun him, but I can't. I don't like him in that way because I never allowed myself to. I'm scared to become his friend, because then I would more likely than not wind up falling for him. If she were my friend, she would understand. But if I were her friend, he should be off limits.
I value both of their friendships, but who should I side with?
And I hate myself for actually being glad that I was asked for my number for the first time in my life. I know what they say, that friends are forever, but boys come and go. -
You're going to hate me for this, but follow your heart. Sit down and think about it. I can't really say, this is one of those things you have to figure out on your own.
If I was in your footsteps, I'd tell my friend I liked her crush. And I'd talk to her about how we both feel about this situation. -
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How do I show a guy that I like him without over-flirting or acting like a slut? I want to show him that I like him without going overboard.
Thanks and hope you`ll answer x -
Simple, tell him you like him, or maybe give him a note.
If you don't want to go that path, try being super ice to him, and help him in anyway you can. -
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