Why do girls do this
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GTMusic NewbieWhy do girls complain about not finding the right guy and say that they are all jerks, players, but still go after them? It doesn't make sense. I've been after this one girl during the summer. We both volunteer at a elderly care home. She's really nice and cute. she has been complaining a lot about how it's hard for her to find the right guy and I've been giving her signals to show her that I like her. I gave her a flower that I found in a garden it was her favorite. She still didn't get that I wanted to ask her out. So I asked her a week ago and she told me something I never expected to hear from a girl who supposedly doesn't like players and jerks. I can't remember the exact wording.
"Thanks but from what you told me you never really dated that many girls and you know my friends always have to know everything about every single guy I date and I can't lie to them because...(the rest was complete s--- that I had forgotten the past few days) and also...I'm into guys with blue eyes so our kids can have beautiful eyes. I'm sorry but I need guys with dating experience and you're too shy to protect me."
Basically she didn't want to date me because, I only have dated two girls in my entire life. (Both relationships were meaningful not just casual ones) I'm too shy to protect her. She also mentioned about me not having a lot character in me because I don't have swag or whatever she calls it. I could give a damn less. She also dissed my eyes because of her damn babies. She always had complained about guys looking after pretty girls for their looks. Today I found out she has a major crush on this one guy who she refers as a prince but I know his reputation. He's not a good guy and I don't want this girl to get hurt, no matter what she did to me. -
lady chre NoviceShe seems like a weak, foolish girl.
LOL
"I need guys with dating experience and you're too shy to protect me...
I am literally rolling around on the floor laughing. Talk about a weak, prissy woman! She's obviously scared to take risks and can't save herself from a goddamned fire. What kind of man would want HER?
My advice is to just let her go. Or prank her! LOL that would be hilarious! Sneak into her house or go to her locker at school and put a fake cockroach or snake or whatever and when she opens it she'll freak LOL. You don't have to do that, but if you have the balls and bother you can. Anyway, for my ~*~sensible~*~ advice, I say just leave her and tell her to kiss your a/ss goodbye.
{PS: I would appreciate it if you show her what I wrote... don't forget that phony smile!} -
lady chre NoviceAnd by the way, if she has fallen for a guy with a bad reputation, who cares. Leave her to die in the fire. It's her mistake for falling in there in the first place.
She dissed your eyes and appearance? Tell her, "At least I'm not as ugly as you, b/tch!" Then shoot her a smirky grin and flounce off with your head held high. -
GTMusic NewbieI'm not the kind of guy to say or do things to a girl like that but you're response was funny. I'm not even shy. I can't let her be with this guy. What he does is so bad but not a lot of girls know about it. He took a girl he was with to a cabin filled with drunktards and stripping when they were suppose to go to the cinema. The girl (who I know personally) came to me the next day and told me how she groped by random drunk guys and how the guy she was with didn't do anything about it. It's messed up.
No matter what girl, no girl deserves a guy like this. -
well just know it not every girl c: personally i think you can do better. She's looking for a guy with looks and popularity which is stupid personality is the best. Blue eyes? How does eye color have to do with anything. If you like someone you don't mind any flaws. Dating experience? Please i dont even have a bf never had. And long time satisfication is better than short term gratification. Innocense is better than experience, Frankly you can do way way way better. You can warn her about the guy but since you asked her out she's going to think it's because your jealous or trying to make her go for you
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I'm gonna go on a limb and risk offending you too by calling her a stupid biotch.
What?
It sounds like it.
I have no idea why chicks do this too man, I'm sorry it happened. :/ -
GTMusic NewbieI understand that not all girls are like this. This summer I just thought she was someone different. I mostly fell for her personality but now I'm over it. If there was a way to warn her about this guy without her thinking I'm jealous she would be okay and safe.
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They always seem to like they're different......... it seems to me that, she wants a guy like that, despite what she says. But still, you're right. Perhaps you can get that girl, the one the guy had strip to tell her, you know, like girl talk or something.
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SilverBlueMoon NoviceYou've had two girlfriends?
That's two more girls than I've had boyfriends.
The blue eyes thing is a load of #$%&@*, if you ask me. I've grown tired of people looking for their significant other based on coloring. If I found my soulmate, I wouldn't care if his eyes were blue, brown, or purple with orange polka dots! (Actually, that last one would be rather amazing...)
Besides, what color are her eyes? If she has brown eyes, then the child will wind up with those anyway.
From what I've read on other posts, you seem like a reasonable person. Quite frankly, you can do better. This girl cares only about what is on the outside. She will have a hard time with life as she grows older and discovers that not everything is about beauty.
The fact that she wants to go with a boy with a reputation is not good, I'll agree. But she didn't even give you a chance. She just looked into those not-blue eyes of yours and said "nope."
From what she said, this sounds like the type of boy she wants anyway. Is someone with a reputationlike his shy? Probably not. And surely he has a very...interesting...personality.
What comes around, goes around. This girl played with your emotions. Nothing you say or do will change her mind about this boy.
Someday, she might realise that she made a mistake in letting you go. Or she might just go and get her heart broken time and time again by boys like this "prince" of hers.
I hope you find someone better than her. She deserves what's coming. You don't. -
It's hard to see the person you thought you loved hurt, even if they are a jerk....... you should still try and move on.....
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Seems like you spent a little more time checking her out than actually getting to really know her. Sorry but dude, if she was saying things like that, you shouldn't have tried to get with her. Ya, she might be attractive, but you can't get with a girl like that if she doesn't have that great of a personality. Honestly, boobs are boobs, asses are asses and you can get some of that from a prostitute. If you're looking for a serious relationship, don't go after a girl just for looks. You'll find that there are plenty of great women out there.
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SilverBlueMoon NoviceI noticed that my earlier comment could be viewed as distant and cold. Well, that was not what I was going for.
It is exceptionally valiant of you to want to warn her. Most boys would sit back with a bucket of popcorn and enjoy the show.
I cannot think of anything you could say or do that would make this girl listen. If you said it? She would accuse you of being jealous. If that other girl of his told her, she'd say even worse things.
You could write her a note, but she would crumple it. If she is that into him, she'd dismiss any rumors she heard.
I suppose that all anyone can do is hope that she sees through him before it's too late.
I would suggest that you distance yourself from her emotionally, as she may very well come running back to you when the two of them don't work out. -
@HK I don't think he based her on looks, maybe they were freinds?
@SBM Good point, but isn't there something he can do? Anything? -
No sensible person would become friends with someone who wants a guy who has swag.
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You'd be surprised.......
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