So this is something I really don't know how to fix..
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Thread Topic: So this is something I really don't know how to fix..
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I'm not supposed to crush on people. It's not my thing. But there is a boy.. he's so handsome, and strong, and he is the sweetest boy I have ever met. He makes me smile whenever he smiles, even when the smile wasn't meant for me. He has real respect for people, something so uncommon in my school it seems almost miraculous. He's one of the only boys in that school who refuses to go with the crowd, and is too proud to fall to lies and slander. He's an amazing person, and one of my best friends, and I think I really like him.
For reasons I care not to explain, my mother says no.
But he's the kind of person that wants to know about his friends, so he asked me a while ago whether there was someone I liked. I didn't want to lie to him, so I told him I'd rather not tell him. He asked if I could give him the first letter of their name, so I told him the first letter of the nickname I had been calling him for a while instead. He asked me for the last letter, so I gave him that from his nickname, as well. He didn't get anywhere close until two days after..
I was talking to him about a test we were taking, and he said, "You remember that thing we were talking about two days ago?". I did, so I said yes. And he started in on the letters I gave him, an analysis that was obviously headed way too fast in the right direction. I covered my ears and said I didn't want to talk about it anymore, so he smiled at me again, and said, "Well, whoever he is, I think this Mystery Man likes you too. Very much."
It killed me. Later, I taught him this coded language for writing I had made when I was younger. He brought it home to memorize it, and came back the next day bragging success at the memorization. He showed me a message he had written out in the language as proof, which took a second for me to decipher: I love you.
I'm dying a bit here, it hurts. I don't want people telling me I should go out with him anyway. I can't. Don't say it. I just.. I wish there was something I could do. -
Seeing as your mother says no and you aren't exactly the badass type, the only thing I can say is this:
Mari, your a beautiful person and although you hate compliements it's true. You listen to rules even when they bother you and I think that this boy deserves you and I know that you deserve him. If you don't want to date him for whatever reason, don't. Instead try to keep in touch and when the time's right, everything will fall into place. :3 -
Teresa, I can be badass! D: Once, when my mom told me not to eat too much, I took another piece of steak just to annoy her!
Hm... anyway.. Thanks, I guess.. I do, honestly. I haven't met someone like him in my entire life, he's so different from all those people I hate. He has everything he would need to fit right in with the snobby popular morons, and he neglects that. He opts instead for personality and kindness.
And before anyone comes in here and tries to tell me I'm too f---ing young to be thinking this crap, I am fifteen years old, and I find that, unlike many of the newbs on here who develope crushes like it's common hunger, I have not done this crap before. These are real feelings, real emotions, that have mattered to me for years, and will matter for a very long time.
Teresa, he made me promise I wouldn't change over the summer. He's that kind of a boy. -
Your mother should be supporting a boyfriend. Your father should be the one saying no.
Both my parents were like 'hell no' when I decided to be with Evan, they couldn't accept that I was homosexual. So when I had to come to America with Evan and his mom, they had no say on the matter. And now I'm happy as a peach.
Perhaps secret dating if you really want to be with this boy? But sometimes it's hard to figure out. Choose what your heart desires, not just your mind. -
Fine, you are badass. ;D
If you really feel this was and he feels the same towards you I think you should be with him. You're mature enough and I believe from your judgement that this boy is who you should be with. He loves you for you, not your body or your looks, you. That's something few guys are ever going to respect and love, reallly love, you for, you. You said not to say that you should date him, but I think you should. You two belong with each other and that rarely happens to anyong, nevermind nice people who deserve it. Take the chance while you have it. :3 You might not change, but your not positive about him. You could be what keeps him the same. -
...Thanks.. but I won't go against my mother. I will, however, sabotage the life of any girl who hits on him. She will bleed.
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O.O Er, have fun.
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Awww, he'd be lucky to have you, Sunneh. If you ever are allowed to date him, though, I'm sure you two will be an incredibly adorable couple...
I wish you two the best, as an unofficial couple. -
Onedirectioner82 NoviceTell him how you feel. That's my advice. You could ask him to wait until your mom says its okay for you to have a boyfriend. He obviously likes you too.
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No more bringing this thread up. Let it die, peoples. Or face my very sharp wrath.
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BellaAlejandro98 Newbie@the coldest sun you are not a badass. You are a asskisser. What a fake story you created. Go f--- your school dog.
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Bella, quit picking on Mari! >:I She's amazing and you're just jealous. Leave her alone.
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@Bella what the heck? Mari would never make up a fake story! She's one of the nicest (if you're nice to her) people I know.
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Bella, you are the most annoying piece of trash to ever walk the earth. Stop being a botch to everyone who's better than you just because you don't get what you want. I wish I were your mother so I could get rid of the Internet and computer. Then I'd smack you in the face for ignorance.
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Both of you would be so cute together. I think it's really good that you're not going against your mum. Maybe when she realises that, she'll let you and your crush date. It's would be the perfect little love story. :)
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