omg what do i do
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Thread Topic: omg what do i do
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Amoney Newbieme and my boy friends parents are both devorced and now my dads dateing his mom and they r sayin we hav to brake up cause it would be acward so we broke up and every time i go to his house his constantly flirting with me ... whatshould i do
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I'm scarcely informed on the circumstances and dynamics of the relationships involved, but I'll still try and lend any advice I can.
Firstly, you need to answer these questions for yourself; do you and your dad communicate well? Does your boyfriend communicate with his mum well? Did either of your parents think it was a serious relationship? Do you think it was a serious relationship? All of these, I think, play a part in what this situation has come to.
Basically, here are two scenarios that I think may be the case:
One, it wasn't a serious relationship - with all that a serious relationship entails. Both of your parents acknowledged this and thought,"Why should we pretend or ignore that we don't have more than friendly feelings for each other and start a serious relationship, as the kids are getting in the way and aren't even in a serious relationship."
Or two, you and your boyfriend were in a serious relationship; neither of your parents gave a toss and decided to no longer pretend or ignore their more than friendly feelings for each other. If so, that's utterly selfish. But, then again, it could be real love - that's something also to consider.
As for the persistent flirting, you need to tell him to stop - sternly. If it continues, ensue some sort of threat along "to get the point" lines, give him a ultimatum or stop visiting his house all together. It's completely inappropriate.
I hope I've just about assisted. Best of luck.
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