Wow... tonight was very eventful.
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Thread Topic: Wow... tonight was very eventful.
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My girlfriend has come to visit kentucky for a week to celebrate our one year anniversary. Tonight was the first night together and we spent two solid hours making out. When I tried to go to the next step *hint* *hint* She told me she wanted to be Celibate until we were both out of highschool. Her and I spent the next hour talking about it. It turns out that she is scared of being judged by other people more than anything else. So we talked and I told her that we were young, we are at the age where we're supposed to make life experiences, the age where we're supposed to experiment. The future is never set in stone and the only thing we have for sure is the here and now. So live every moment like your last. ;) then we made out for another half hour. She went to bed at 1AM, with a smile on her face and saying that she'll think about it. :)
I can still taste her on my lips and her perfume is still in my room. :) IDK, I am just so happy that I had to tell somebody. -
That is really awesome. =) Do you mean she said she wanted to WAIT to celebrate until you were both out of high school? That makes sense. Where does your girlfriend live if she visited you in Kentucky?
That's an awesome story. And being able to feel someone's presence even after their gone (taste of lips, smell of perfume) is like the best thing ever. =) -
Celibacy is kind of the same thing as abstinance. So yes, she wanted to wait. But when I talked to her and we talked it out, she said she would think about it. :P
And she lives in Florida. -
Ooh. Okay. Glad I got that straight so I didn't hear it some other time and sounds stupid. That happens a lot. =P
And wow, that's a ways away. =/ -
she's going to be here for a week. And every moment counts. The best things in life are the ones worth waiting for. :)
She's going into her senior year of high school and I'm going into my Junior year. We have a total of two years left apart. The plan is that we'll spend the next year getting small things into place and getting things ready, then the second year, she is going to work full time and start saving up. I'm going to work part time and my money is going to her. Then by the end of the second year the house I live in will be paid for. She'll move up here and we'll live in my house. The money we both saved up will be enough to keep us going until everything has settled. At that point, I'll take up a fulltime job, she'll take a part time job, and she'll go to colledge. Once she's out of colledge, we'll switch. I'll have the part time job and she'll have the fulltime job (with better pay) and I'll go to colledge. :)
It only took us an entire year to figure this plan out. -
Wow. That's a seriously intense and thought out plan. And it's really sweet that you'd do that for each other. And it's really great that you trust each other even when you're so far away. I really hope this goes well for you both. =)
Oh, and for your future reference, college doesn't have a "d" in it. =) -
It's 2AM, and my mind is still thinking about earlier tonight. Please excuse my occasional typos. ;)
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Good Plan!
All the Best to you 2! -
I wish I knew guys like you, Bob.
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I agree. It would appear as though you're a really sweet guy. =)
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The first step towards love that everyone has to take is the most difficult. The first thing that every guy has to understand is that he comes second. As long as the girl is happy, you'll survive. Nothing else is important. The first thing that every girl has to understand is that a guy will live to make you happy. You dont have to tell him about every little thing thats gone wrong in your life because it wont do anything but make him feel useless.
I have accepted that I am second. And my girlfriend knows that I live to make her happy. She's the one. I love her. -
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Aw! -
I am beyond happy for you!
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That's the most intense thing I've read all day. And wow. That's so sweet. Mind if I quote you on that? =)
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and if she ever finds out that i posted a thread about her and I making out, she'll skin me. xP
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