how do you know if you love someone?
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Thread Topic: how do you know if you love someone?
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i hate romantic feelings bc they're so complicated and i desperately need help figuring out if my feelings for a guy are romantic or not. and i need help figuring out who i actually have romantic feelings for, as i like two different guys- please help me, someone, anyone :')
i can explain the kind of situation in a second -
it should be on this page, the third post from the top.
that kinda explains what i'm dealing with :') -
what matters more to you, a friendship with the person or a relationship? not saying you can't still be friends in a relationship, but do you need more with the other person? are you attracted? how do you meet each other's needs?
I feel like growing up I had so many friendships with guys who I thought I liked but wasn't sure. and now I'm married and it was so different with my husband than all the other guys. it's just such natural chemistry where you know you're both interested and you want to spend all the time in the world together and you want to know everything about the other person and you have no hesitation being comfortably yourself around them. it was always like a strange mix of being comfortable and excited for me -
that's a good way to think abt it, but like- i really just, can't fully understand the emotions i'm feeling towards the guys?? like- god, idk how to put it. like, i feel like i have both different and yet very similar feelings for them, and the interactions i have with them feel kind of similar? idrk how to describe it. and when it comes to attraction, whether it's physically or otherwise, i feel like, yes, i think i'm attracted to both, but- idk how to tell if i actually am, y'know?
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Oh poor you... But if u like two guys, choose your favorite! If you have no favorite, is not a problem: you can love the two! But if one live you accept him feel and start a relation with him. And if you can't forgot the other, try to think just about your love!
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imsoclueless Seniorupdate: the one guy ik from theatre i cannot like anymore (also, i've kinda lost feelings for him, i think-) bc my bsf likes him. and to be fair, she's known him for far longer than i have and she's basically besties with his sister, so i may as well just give up on him lol
plus her relationship with him is basically me with the other guy i like (i'm bsfs with this guy and i like him a lot, and i'm bsfs with his sister as well lmaoo)
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