I feel like I can't be in a relationship properly
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Thread Topic: I feel like I can't be in a relationship properly
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Like, we've all had bad relationships in the past, right? They mess us up some, but they mostly help us grow as people. I've gotten over everything that happened in those, but for the life of me I can't get rid of these trust issues. I want to open up, I really do. But everytime I try, it comes off as I don't want to talk about it and I don't care. I know I can get.. hollow.. at times, but i try my best to be responsive and a good boyfriend. I just always seem to dissapoint and upset exponentially. And lately it seems like I'm making them uncomfortable a lot, it feels like it at least. I've definitely been more self hating lately, but I don't want to think about what they'd do if I took my life. I want to be a better boyfriend, a better person, but all this time later I've barely changed
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What could help you is just taking a break from relationships. Self-reflect, take care of yourself, take time to heal. Or if you're currently in a relationship, ask them how you could improve. Communication is essential in relationships, so don't hesitate to seek out advice on how to better yourself from your loved one 💛
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