Advice? Someone is cheating on their s/o.
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Thread Topic: Advice? Someone is cheating on their s/o.
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Hi. I’m going to try to explain this story in the simplest way possible.
I was talking to this guy a little over a month ago. He seemed pretty nice and all was well at first, but then he started being very emotionally abusive. He invalidates my feelings and did not make me feel very great about myself. I hate being yelled at, he knew this, yelled at me on multiple occasions because I wasn’t feeling good.
I knew that was not healthy for me so I stopped talking to him. I even explained why. The guy claimed that I had ghosted and told some of his friends things about me that were not true, but I did not cause too much trouble about it because I was trying to avoid conflict.
A few of my friends know how he treated me and agree that I made a good decision to stop talking to him.
Currently, the guy has a girlfriend. I’ve witnessed him touch and flirt with other girls multiple times. It’s usually the same group of girls, except for another one in particular. I’m not sure if everyone would consider this “cheating” but it would make me uncomfortable if my s/o was doing this, so here’s a list of what I’ve seen:
* giving a girl a piggyback ride (not really that bad, could just be friendly, but I’m including it here.) he was stroking her thighs/legs which is what concerned me
* telling me I’m sexy
* letting another girl lay on his shoulders and against his chest while touching her hair
* constantly making remarks about a girl’s bottom
I’m not too sure how his girlfriend would feel about these things if she knew. It would make me uncomfortable if my s/o was doing these things, but that could just be me.
The important part is I’m not sure if I should tell his girlfriend about it. I don’t know her at all. I’m scared that if I tell her she will think that I am just trying to screw him over, but at the same time, I feel bad for not saying anything.
Any advice on what I should do? -
I know nothing abt these kind of situations, mainly because this has never happened to me nor have I seen this happen, but if I were in that situation, I'd either tell the s/o abt what the guy is doing, so she'd be aware of it. This is the best advice I can give, I hope this helps, and that this all works itself out soon :)
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Do you have a phone?
You should get a recording of him doing this to other girls, or even you. Then you should show the recording to his girlfriend and tell her what's been happening.
I'm so sorry this has been happening to you, and I really hope this will help <3 -
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I agree with Epsi
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Eclipse is right
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Esp is right: Get some proof and show it to the s/o
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*busts through the door one month later*
I agree with Eclipse -
Tell her
Her was a dickhead to u so be one right back and snitch on him -
He*
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