morals in relationships, etc.
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Thread Topic: morals in relationships, etc.
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is it wrong to think of your s/o as a parental figure? like a guidance, mentor, etc.
this doesn't have any relation to sexual aspects in a relationship, such as d*lg, and other kinks. it's not comparable to p*dophilia either.
it's simply looking up to your partner as if they were your mother or father.
i don't know if i should think of this as morally wrong?
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I don’t think it’s morally wrong. It might be a little concerning though because that would suggest that that person has issues with their parents and obviously felt like they were neglected in someway during their childhood, so they’re projecting these feelings onto their partner. It might also be concerning because it would give their partner more control in the relationship, which could lead to them becoming abusive in the future because you’re suppose to be each others equal.
However, if it’s just like a “wow, I really admire my partner for _____ and should be more like them in that aspect” then I don’t think it’s a problem. You’re suppose to grow and learn from each other. -
i am an age regressor, which could provide further explanation as to why i feel this way towards someone i have feelings for.
it always happens like this though. whenever i have these feelings towards someone, i think of them as someone to look up to, someone who can help guide and protect me.
for some reason, i feel safer and more comfortable with a relationship like this, whether it’s romantic or platonic. -
I think everyone wants to feel protected when it comes to a relationship (I know I do), so I think that’s normal. Again, I don’t think any of this is morally wrong. I think it really becomes an issue when you start letting these people (that you see as parental figures) make every decision in your life. Sort of like how parents raise their children, if that makes any sense
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I don't think it's morally wrong.
I feel the same way towards my partner. Maybe not specifically as a mother/father, but I definitely look up to them as that sort of authoritative figure for guidance and protection. I am also an age regressor like you.
And every relationship is different and people crave different things. As long as you have those key elements of trust, honesty and respect in your relationship however, there shouldn't be an issue w how the dynamics play out or if you prefer a partner who takes on that role and vice versa.
I do think your partner should be aware of how you feel and okay with how you feel. Not everybody is comfortable filling that role. So as long as both parties are consenting and respecting each other - it's like what's the big deal?
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