Just venting.
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Thread Topic: Just venting.
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I'm such a piece of s--- person, lol.I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend-we have been together for 2 years and I love and care deeply for her...or so I think I love her.If I loved her why am I catching feelings for her friend?! I feel awful for being this way.I mean I don't love her friend but I do find her very attractive and we only talked a few times but those times were amazing.I'm not going to act on my feelings because me and my girlfriend even though its only been 2 years..those 2 years have been magic.I don't want to be a dick either, she has always struggled with relationships in the past before me and I don't want to add to that s---.I don't even know if her friend even likes me that way..I just know we get along really well.I'm thinking of deleting her number and just not talking to her anymore.I don't want to hurt anyone..
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That’s all true my child. Let the pain overtake you. Anything you want will come your way. Let go of yourself
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Love is something that can't be controlled. Don't blame yourself for having feelings that you didn't ask for.
Take the time to figure out what makes you feel that way towards the friend. Sometimes, you end up mistaking happiness about being around someone with love; and if it's not that, sometimes, the feeling is fleeting and doesn't last. It's important to take the situation one step at a time and to not jump to any conclusions.
If you're comfortable doing so, perhaps consider talking to your girlfriend about this? Let her know that you're confused by your feelings, and that you have no intention of harming her or acting on those feelings. It will obviously upset her to hear that, but if you aren't comfortable being open and/or if she isn't reasonable after hearing you confess, then it's possible she isn't the one.. Especially if she won't help you through this and work as a team. -
Hi
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The path you choose is your own Jade66sick. Do whatever you is right for you.
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Blergh
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