Sexual Abuse.
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Thread Topic: Sexual Abuse.
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I'm confused and worried.
Ok so the girl I live with *she's just a friend who I'm living with bc im broke and waiting for dorms to be available*
Basically her dad has been sexually harassing her since she was 13 years old *Mind you she's 18 now* he would go to her room and start french kissing her back and neck and then tell her to be a good girl and not tell mom
Alomg with watching her shower and then her finding him and yelling and him leaving.
The harassment faded as time went by but she claims that she sometimes *dreams* someone or something is having sexual relations with her
Wait I'm going 2 continue -
And she said rhat when she was like 15 she would wake up to go to the bathroom in the morning and there would be blood on her panties/ when she peed and would say it hurt too poop
At that time her mom wanted to take her to the doctor bc she had an eating disorder -
And wanted her to get a full physical done but the dad kept saying no no no no no
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Long story short she has a boyfriend even though she doesnt necessarily care about but
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Thanks to that her dad backed off a bit? At least she thought.
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This is probably graphic it's ok if you report me but warning
EXPLICIT SEX ED
She went to the bathroom a couple days ago and come kept dripping from her bc as we know it doesnt absorb and it falls out
Anyway it's not her boyfriend's bc he "pulls out" and she hasn't seen him in a couple of days so it couldn't be from him -
Long story short she's experiencing vaginal bleeding and itching and thinks she might be pregnant but the boyfriend and her don't do the "c** in me" method so how did the semen get in there??
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I sleep in the guest room and i sleep with a knife but to be honest I'm worried.
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C** not come and to not too
Basically im confused as to what she can do now because if she is pregnant they'll try to blame it on the boyfriend bit im pretty f---ing sure it's the dad
Here's the thing though
He looks so innocent and harmless so no one will believe he is to blame. -
Im honestly mad because I experienced sexual abuse and no one did anything to that girl and it's like
How do i help you when i am not capable of helping myself -
What do you guys think?
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Pull out method doesn't work, just so you know. Semen comes out when the penis is erected. So even he pulled out she could still get pregnant from the amount that comes out.
As for the dad thing, I would tell her to keep her door locked, I would keep yours locked too and go see a professional, like a therapist and have her talk to someone. She needs to report him. And you should too. Just say that she told you what was happening and you are concerned. -
I'm not sure what to suggest here. She really needs to see a doctor, first and foremost, and get a rape kit.
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Jesus christ now I'm worried because I didn't tell her that mainly bc i'm not sexually active. I guess it could be his too? Especially because she says he doesn't like using condoms because he can't feel anything.
Im staying at her house for one more week after that im gone so i have to find as much evidence as I can. I was thinking leaving my phone propped up on her vanity and have it record her sleep in case some weird things happen in her room. To get lighting i would have her turn on a nightlight or something? She said she doesnt want to report him because "what if im not pregnant and it's all just my imagination"
And B
Because her dad is the only one that works so him being arrested would mean her mom and her would be homeless.
So like I'm extremely frustrated???
I didn't think of that D: I'll talk to her about it tonight amd then if she doesnt have the balls to tell her mom what's going on so she could take her to the doctor I'm going to have to be the one that speaks up because like I said I will be leaving her alone soon and im sure once i leave it's going to be a complete mess in that house -
What i dont understand is how someone can be so f---ing repulsive to see their daughter in a sexual way
Out of all the people
Their f---ing daughter
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