Bisexual Struggles
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Thread Topic: Bisexual Struggles
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Okay, so I'm bisexual. I've had a few crushes on both genders, but not like this. I know I probably sound petty and ridiculous, but this is really bugging me so I'm going to let it go on here.
My first crush, the guy, is my ex. I'm still kinda friends with him, but I like him a little more than that, and it's really annoying me, first of all because we broke up because he asked to see my boobs, and second of all, he hates me because of it. (By the way, I'm not even thirteen.)
My second crush, the girl, is my best friend. Yes, so it makes things a little awkward. I've never had a crush like this before. She is the most beautiful, adorable, brave and independent girl I've ever met, and I love her too much. This one, is pansexual. So I decided 'I can't keep this a secret for much longer' and so I told her. I said 'Rach, I'm sorry but I have a crush on you. If you don't like me, which you probably don't, I'm sorry.' Do you know what she said? She said she wanted to be with me, but she was afraid of getting judged. I told her that everything would be alright, and when me and my ex-girlfriend were together (She's two years older and my best friend to this day) we weren't judged badly. And so she took some time to think of an answer, and the next day, at school, she told me that she would say yes. (To being my girlfriend.) But less than three hours later, a friend of hers started saying "Rach, you and Ellie would make a really cute couple. I ship it!" So Rach took me aside and she told me that she only likes me as a friend, and that she was sorry. I smiled, saying that it's fine. I asked if it made our friendship awkward, and thankfully, it didn't and we are still friends. But I am heartbroken. I generally feel empty, and it's making me feel all depressed.
What do I do? I like Kieran and Rachael almost as much as each other. (As you can see, I like Rach quite a bit better)
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I'm assuming you're Ellie?
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Yes
She's Ellie. -
Yes.
I'm Ellie. -
Not even thirteen? Idk why he would ask to see them if you're basically a f---ing stick
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Bi_Bunny NewbieWhat should you do? Racheal is not into you and your ex wanted to see your boobs. I mean atleast Racheal is still friends with you but I don't know what you should do. Just move on
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Idk what to do either, but thanks anyway..
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I'm Bisexual so.. I just ignore everyone.. But I'm fine... Ish
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So she broke up with you because someone said you two were a cute couple? That doesn't make sense.
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No, she broke up with me because she was getting anxious and panicky because she didn't want anyone to know, and she thought my friend had found out. She said that she didn't want to deal with it anymore
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So the song 'You kiss me like your boyfriend' applies to your life right now kinda? Many lesbians or bis are worried that if people find out they like girls they'll get a lot of hate. It's getting better in Canada. But it's probably getting harder in the states. I'm not sure what can be done about it. Maybe you could try spreading LGBT awareness in your school.
Just be prepared because depending on your school and where you live it may cause some hate. But you need to bring a problem to attention in order for it to be fixed. Then if she feels more welcome and accepted for who she is you guys could get together. Just don't tell anyone that Rach is bi or lesbian unless she tells you to or she says it herself because that could damage your friendship. -
I live in the UK, and at my school the LGBTQ+ community is in full support, we have several clubs to support it, I think it's because of her depression and anxiety.
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Oh okay. Perhaps you should try and find a way to increase her confidence. I don't really have any other advice.
As for the boy crush, did he respect boundaries when you told him you didn't want to show him your breast? -
Yeah I guess.
I hope he doesn't do it again... -
So he tried to take your shirt off without your permission?
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