help please

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Thread Topic: help please

• a_person123 Newbie

  8 years ago
  I feel like I have no friends. I got ditched one day by probably the only people I did trust. after that I now have trust issues. and I would like some advice. but moving on.
  I dont want to be a loner anymore. when I was a kid I had bad anger issues. I no longer do and everybody ignores me because they're probably scared im gonna stab them or something. I dont want to be remembered like that. I dont get why nobody talks to me. I dress nice. I act calm now. I really dont get it please help
• a_person123 Newbie

  8 years ago
  continued)
  I really want a girlfriend. I just want somebody to comfort me. I dont want any random person to date either. I want one if the ones that everybody is friends with. but no. everybody hates me and I dont have a chance of dating anyone because of anger issues in the past. everybody thinks im wierd. im tired of it. please tell me how I can friends that are actually loyal. Im really gonna kms if im still a loner by the end of the year. im tired of spending my summer alone. I just want help.
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  Paige_ Junior

  8 years ago
  You have to make friends, it's not going to magically happen.
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  sademogirl Senior

  8 years ago
  I know this seems like a terrible answer, but hear me out..
  Try doing good deeds for people. Try to impress them, but don't try. I know that makes no sense. Haha.. By showing that you can help, you care about the people, it will make them forget that you were a terrible person.
  Dressing had nothing to do with this. "Oh, s/he is wearing a suit/dress, I want them as my friend!" Barely anyone does that.
  Acting calm is a bad thing. Acting. Be yourself. If something ticks you off, don't ignore it. Bring it up, but don't be mean about it. Say it in calm manor.
  Though, if these people think you're weird, aim towards a different group. Don't stay lingering over one specific pod. There are billions of people on this planet.
  I'm sorry if that seemed pathetic, but I don't exactly know what to say. Sorry xc

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