It's f-ed up how much of the Front Porch
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It's so unoriginal. Anyway, to try and help it get back on track, and in another attempt to better understand the people around here, I have another batch of questions, this time pertaining to romance. Please note that since this is the Front Porch, every usage of the word "love" refers to romantic love, rather than platonic or familial love.
1.) Have you ever been in love?
2.) How can you tell when you're in love?
3.) What makes up a healthy relationship?
4.) What makes up an unhealthy relationship?
5.) What do you think about polygamy? Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at once?
6.) What do you think about nonbinary romantic/sexual orientations?
7.) What kind of person/people do you hope to end up with, if any?
8.) What do you think of marriage?
9.) Have any cute romantic fantasies? (one of mine is driving around at night blasting loud music and singing together) This could also be your wedding day daydreaming or things you hope for your significant other to do.
10.) At what time in someone's life do you think they have the capacity to love someone else in an enduring and healthy way?
11.) Is love a feeling or a choice? -
These are like either polls or quizzes.
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12.) Can internet relationships ever become love?
13.) Do you believe in love at first sight?
They are not a quiz because answering them will not lead up to an answer. There is no ultimate question being asked.
They're not polls because of questions like 9, where I'm asking for details. Furthermore, there are endless possibilities for answers to any of these questions. I couldn't possibly narrow them down to a few options for people to choose from. -
1.) I can't answer that really. I feel like I have, still am actually, but I can't tell. I might just fancy him a lot
2. You can't explain it. You just know it. It isn't the whole "You get butterflies," because you could just feel sick. You just know when you are.
3. I would like to list them
-Keep in touch
-At least one argument (because everyone has at least one)
-You actually liking them
-Non-cheaters
-You understand each other
-Etc.
4. I would like to list them
-Certain age (like 8 and 20)
-Cheating
-Never liked them
-Arguments 24/7
-Etc.
5. Yes, I actually do.
6. If you love/like them, then you love/like them. Its your choice.
7. Anyone like Andy Biersack. His personality makes me happy.
8. I'm scared of it. Its just a prettier way of saying divorce
9. YES, OH MY GOD YES.
10. At any age. Like I said, if you love/like them then you do. No one can control it, but you.
11. Feeling. You can't force yourself to love someone. -
12. If could work. Online dating sites sometimes ends in love. So, why not?
13. No. Love at first sight is basically choosing someone because of looks. Hence the name "love at first sight" -
1.) Have you ever been in love?
Lots of times. Didn't work out well. Oh well, time to move on, lelele. 2.) How can you tell when you're in love?
When sanity has been lost and all rationality has dissipated from existence. 3.) What makes up a healthy relationship?
Food and understanding each other, which sometimes there can be barriers that prevent that. Also food.
4.) What makes up an unhealthy relationship?
When they don't get you food!!!!!!! :((((((
5.) What do you think about polygamy?
Don't care. Not my life, not my type of thing, but whatever.
Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at once?
Yes, have done it and people have done it to me even more and look where I am? In a whirlpool of constant shet! Isn't it amazing!
6.) What do you think about nonbinary romantic/sexual orientations?
[b]Once again, don't give a f---. Not my life. You can like what you like, get wet over whatever you like, get boners to anything you like, f--- anyone you like that you truly love unless it is illegal.
7.) What kind of person/people do you hope to end up with, if any?
Anyone that I can sneak away with on certain nights, and just stay outside and talk to each other and I would be laying in their lap, as they rub my stomach and actually make me not feel miserable and worthless :D.
8.) What do you think of marriage?
Waste of time. Some people want to get married, but I'm just one of those people that don't like the idea of marriage.
9.) Have any cute romantic fantasies?
YES
WE WOULD GO TO THE MALL OR WALGREENS OR WHATEVER AND GOOF AROUND YESSSS (one of mine is driving around at night blasting loud music and singing together) This could also be your wedding day daydreaming or things you hope for your significant other to do.
10.) At what time in someone's life do you think they have the capacity to love someone else in an enduring and healthy way?
Has to be months or at least a few years to soak up some deep knowledge. Yet I am just a dumb teenager and probably don't even know what I'm talking about, but that's what I am guessing.
11.) Is love a feeling or a choice?
Feeling.
Love
NOUN
1. an intense feeling of deep affection: "babies fill parents with intense feelings of love"
Yep, a feeling indeed. There's much more definitions but it is referred to as a feeling or emotion. -
May I change my answer for 5?
Well
Yes, I do believe in that. There's no way you can love one exact person your whole life. That's my opinion. Though, I also believe that there is a person that is destined for you. Your one true person. That sounds stupid, sorry. -
Sade, care to share any of your examples for 9?
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This thread is too true
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1.) I could probably go on and on about this because of how complex my relationships end up being, especially ones from way back In the day, but to sum it up honestly I'd have to say yes.
2.) It all depends on the situation. Most of the time for me it's never the same.
3./4.) These are hard ones for me honestly besides the obvious answers that anyone could come up with, though from the way I see it, only actual, legit love (not lust or anything of the sort, thay is completely different and shouldnt be put in the same box as love like most people do) produces a truly healthy relationship. Now one based on not as legit of, but still able to be called, love, that depends on the situation but that's the tyoe of thing that lasts a few months healthily then just dies out.
5.) I think it is possible though a situation where that kind if relationship is stable is kind of a rare one due to the nature of those.
6.) I'm okay with being friends with non-binaries but honestly it'll be awhile if ever that you'll catch me in a relationship with them. Not because I don't like them or anything, it's just that the ways that I end up loving someone don't apply at all or at least as well.
7.) I haven't really given much thought on this and honestly I'm okay with nearly anyone so long as they're female since birth and have some common interests with me. Beyond that, it just depends on the people I have aaround me.
8.) If I find the right pperson and know for sure that we're a good fit then I'll probably marry them, but I want to wait for that until I know for sure that they're the one, or the closest I'll ever come to the one.
9.) Not really, honestly. I just want things to work well, maybe a bit better than my parents, especially the way they used to be...just sayin
10.) Honestly it depends on the person. I had a later "joining date" on the whole dating gane thing than most people when it comes to healthy ones, while some I know have much earlier ones, and to be honest I think it comes with maturity. If you think like someone my age or maybe a bit older or younger, then you're probably good.
11.) In these nice, s---ty eyes of mine (hahaha) the only love that's s choice is more lust-based. Actual love comes with time and isn't something you can force or make happen. It just does.
12.) It happened to me, in a way, so I suppose so. If it can happen to a (at the time it started) 14 year-old on a quiz site, I don't see wjy it can't fully happen with someone else outta the millions possibly (probably) couple/few billions of people out there.
13.) Love at first sight? It could probably happen, but most "cases" I've seen are more lust-based more than they are actual love, since like I ssid earlier, love takes time (usually, I won't say it can't happen quickly, just that it probably won't.) and isn't something you can summon on-demand. It's not that easy. -
Of, of course!
I was in 8th period where the troubled kids clogged up the room. The teacher was yelling at them, so we didn't actually do any work. I was coloring a picture of a cute little bunny. I had headphones in the whole time though. The song played and it reminded me of this guy I met and a beach party. The beach party was a memory I had. I started daydreaming about me and this guy there together. I exaggerated the memory a lot. It was weird, but amazing. I dont want to give deeper details. Oml
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Bumping this.
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1.) Been in love love? Like, fallen in love? Well, once.
2.) When I'm in love, I just love a person so much that its indescribable. I feel happy/excited when I see the person. They make me smile. But I also just desire them, romantically mostly. I think about holding their hand, holding them, just taking with them, spending time together. I'm never bored around them. I don't ever get tired of them. I don't ever wish to stop talking to them.
3.) A healthy relationship needs stability and communication. Talk to your partner, talk to them about how they feel and how you feel. Without communication, there's a bunch of tension and then misunderstandings and then arguments and yeah. Bad stuff. There's also gotta be legit love, or else I'm not sure why you guys are dating each other. If you're feeling unhappy in your relationship, don't cheat on your partner. Just talk to them. Communicate .
4.) An unhealthy relationship is an abusive relationship, obviously. But a bad relationship doesn't have to have abuse all the time. No communication, no love, no trust, it's just a recipe for disaster.
5.) Yeah, I have no problem with polygamy. As long as everybody in the relationship(s) knows what's up and consents and is cool with all of it, it's fine. Do you, man.
6.) I support it 100% and have absolutely no problems with that stuff.
7.) I want someone who's a lot like me, who thinks like me and shares my beliefs. I want someone who's intelligent, fair, levelheaded and curious. I also like it also like people who share my interests so we can gush about stuff together!
Physically speaking, nice eyes. Maybe with glasses. Tall or at least my height/pretty close. Other than that, I don't really care.
8.) Marriage is cool, man. Yay for pledging your love for someone. If you wanna get married, cool. No stopping you. Unless it's, like, "bad" marriage. Like getting married against your will to someone you prolly don't even know.
9.) I can't think of anything at the moment, but I'll let you know if I do later on.
10.) It's different for everyone. People mature at different times, different rates. But I'd say, eh, wait until high school to worry about that stuff. That's when I feel most people begin to handle situations like that. You don't need to date in elementary and middle school.
11.) It's a feeling. -
1.) Have you ever been in love? I possibly. It might not be real love but it feels like that.
2.) How can you tell when you're in love? You love the ability to rationally think . You can barley see the wrongs of that person.
3.) What makes up a healthy relationship? Honesty , trust , friendship and knowing them properly
4.) What makes up an unhealthy relationship? Lying , betraying , arguments , abuse not knowing them much.
5.) What do you think about polygamy? Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at once? I don't think I would Personly do it as I struggle to focus on one person as it is. However if they love more than one person then just let them love each other.
6.) What do you think about nonbinary romantic/sexual orientations? I have absoultley no problem with it.
7.) What kind of person/people do you hope to end up with, if any? Someone who can understand me and accept who I am.
8.) What do you think of marriage? Marriage is the bond between two people . It's better to love the one you're going to be married to. Marriage means having someone who can understand you.'
9.) Have any cute romantic fantasies? (one of mine is driving around at night blasting loud music and singing together) This could also be your wedding day daydreaming or things you hope for your significant other to do. My fantasy is cosplaying with him / doing something we both love and when we're deciding what resturnat to eat at he does that cute thing where he wants me to pick and he's all stubborn
10.) At what time in someone's life do you think they have the capacity to love someone else in an enduring and healthy way? I think from the moment you understand what is around you , you are able to love. However I don't think they should be in a relationship until they're old enough to make choices about their partner and old enough to understand when something is wrong.
11.) Is love a feeling or a choice? I personaly think love is a feeling.
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