in need of advice pls
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Thread Topic: in need of advice pls
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1Direction4ev3r Newbiei was checking my boyfriends phone and reacently discovered that my boyfriend has been sexually roleplayeng with another person on a roleplayeng site. We have been 2gether for 1 year now in a long distance relationship butt i just discavered he has been doing this i havent told him anything about it becuse i dont know if my reaction to him doing this was okay. i got really disappointed becuse i feel like hes cheating on me by doing this and also because he never told me i feel that its my fault to becuase i have never gone past kissing in our relationship we are 15 and weve never had cyber sex before and i think hes doing this to somehow replace something i cant give him. the way he was tlking to the other gil you would think he was dating her insted i cried because i really got hurt and felt my heart brake Help me knw if i should confrnt him about this or if wats he doing is wrong and if my reaction was wrong pls to and thnxs srry if i sound dumb im jst really upset rn
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Can you retype that again, only use autocorrect?
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O.o you're 15?
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You went through his phone? I think you guys should break up because you obviously don't trust him because you have to check his phone, and he's having cyber sex with some person. But whatever you do, don't have sex unless if you're absolutely sure that that's what you want to do, and don't let him guilt you into it.
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calidreamz NewbieIf it's something that's really bothering you, you should definitely confront your boyfriend about it. You have a right to be upset. If you're in a relationship, he shouldn't be talking to other girls like that. And definitely don't feel guilty. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. And if he turns to another girl for things that you won't give him, you probably shouldn't be together. I know it can be tough. Try to confront him about it and see where it goes from there. Your trust for him is probably ruined now though, which is extremely important in a relationship. You're 15, you're young, you have your whole life ahead of you. A boy at this age shouldn't be making your heart break.
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Confront him about it and talk it out. Cybersex isn't sex, he's not cheating with you, you don't have to worry yourself about that. But else wise I say break up with him.
1. You have to invade his privacy (which isn't cool) to discover things he should have just been honest with you about.
2. Don't force yourself to do things sexually with him just to keep him around. If he loves you, he won't force you to do anything. You're only 15, don't have sex just yet. You're still a child.
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