I need help.
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Thread Topic: I need help.
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oneoneone NewbieYes, this is a second account. No, I will not tell you who I am. No, I will not tell you who the people discussed in this issue are.
Anyhow, I have a problem. For a while, now, I've been in an on and off relationship with a certain user, who I love dearly. And then we broke up for reasons, and stayed apart for a couple months. During that time, they were pretty much depressed, and I felt like s--- for making them feel that way. But also during that time, I dated someone else, who I grew to love as much as the other.
Now, though, we've broken up, and the former and I are speaking again, but the other still has feelings for me, as do I for them. Obviously, whatever I do, I'm hurting someone. And it's starting to hurt me, because I feel a bit boxed in, because either way I'm f---ing up.
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U are unloving I bet
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I think you should stay with the guy your with now. If the other dude and you had problems chances are you won't work out well in the feature. But it's really what you think is best. :3
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No I don't think they're UnLoving
Well you can't blame yourself for upsetting them, you're not responsible for both of their happiness and obviously you can't be with them both.
I'd think about the reasons you split with both of them - where they important reasons or was it over something silly? It'll help if you think about that. You're just going to have to decide who (if either) you want to be in a relationship with. And then make it clear to the other that you still care about them but can't date them as it didn't work out between you or you have feelings for someone else.
If you do choose either then make sure its what you want and it's not just to please them. Hope this helps.
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