I can't get over my ex from a year ago?
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Thread Topic: I can't get over my ex from a year ago?
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A little over a year ago, I dated a girl for a pretty damn long time. She dated a few boys during our relationship, but promised that she would stop dating them in seven months. I stayed with her through that time, and she even let me see other girls (who didn't know yes I'm a horrible person not the point).
I really did love her. She was tactically my whole world, I trusted her with everything. I even spent money on gifts for her (including some expensive ass perfume). Despite the lack of attention from her, I loved her. It absoloutely killed me to see her with other people, but I stayed with her (that's why I cheated, she almost never gave me any attention).
A week before Valentines day, she dumped me during school through a letter. I broke down crying in class. She had torn my heart into pieces. This was my first heartbreak. I even saw her give the perfume I bought her to another girl.
She tried to claim she waited to get over me and that she actually loved me. But she, in reality, dated some boy directly afterwards. Somebody even said she told her mom she only dated me because she felt bad. Even during the relationship, people tried to tell me she was fake and she was just using me so she could have a girlfriend and "be different".
Many months later, she texted me. She said she had transferred to home schooling and she hoped we could be friends and she was sorry and a bunch of other pity party stuff she always pulls. I simply told her she's fake and I hate her, I didn't want her to text me anymore. She stopped texting me and I deleted any form of communication with her.
I thought I was over it, but I'm not. I can't explain it. There's no way I still care for her, but it's still left a scar on my heart. I try to ignore it. It's hard. -
I'm in a situation where I think my crush is slipping away from me. It's hard. You try to stop thinking about it but at the end of the before you sleep you think about it. It hurts and you think your going mad. Then you wonder if the other person cares as much as you do and always think that they don't. You feel like you hate them but then you realize you still care. I'm trying to do the things I used to do, and I believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe you'll find another person one day, a person who will never let you worry and will deeply care about you. Or maybe she will or even you'll have a change in heart and become in love again. Good luck
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Just be friends with everybody! It is not like you are going to marry them.
here is how I do it, (and just saying I have never been broken up of ever a guy because of it)
If I like someone, and they like me-just befriends!
If someone likes me-just be friends!
If someone asks me out say no and just be friends.
if I have the urge to date someone- think over the factors of dating and what the consequences will be if we break up, ( basically you just ruined your friendship because you are never going to look at them the same way,) so just be friends.
this is what works for me, I don't know about your situation though.
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