Is he into me or nah?
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Thread Topic: Is he into me or nah?
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Dadrocks43 ExperiencedFirst off, I'm part of this band im the lead singer and he is the electric guitarist with awesome wild hair, and lots of skill. He's laid-back, introverted, and mature for his age. I started having a crush on him since the band started but he doesnt know.
One day, I was browsing facebook and I saw he friend requested me so I accepted.
then a day later, he messages me asking if we can go and sing at open mics together. He doesnt sing he was hoping to play the guitar for me. So we chatted everyay about the matter. Finally he invited meover to his house but I declined because my parents wouldnt let me.
He stopped talking to me after that.
But here is when it gets confusing...
1. I asked him to come to my b-day dinner he came. He said yes as soon as I asked him. No time to think
2. I invited him to the movies, he say next to me, but my firend and I switched and so she sat next him. his face looked really disapoiinted.
3. Then after that, I invited to come to parties and stuff with me, I even invited him to come watch one of performances. He said he would come to the performance, but he never came. later he apoligized.
After this, he stopped texting, messaging me all together, I always initiated contact.
I noticed some small things, but theyre all mixed signals:
1.at band practices, he would send me glances
2.When I talked to him he would make eye contact, but when I asked him questions, he would pretend to be zoned out.
3. one day I asked him what his type was, and he said he didn't have one. he just likes extroverts and he was into seniors (i'm an extrovert, and i'm a senior, so I thought he was hinting something)
4. when i talked about how cool some guys were, he gave a really blank stare and didn't smile.
5. instead of saying my name to get attention, he would tap on my shoulder blade or my arm
6. he always finds his way next to me, and compliments things like my earrings or my skirt.
7. when he comes to me, he gets really close and his shoulders face me.
8. his pupils are always big when hes next to me, but im not sure if they largen or if they are always like that.
9. but, When I do text him, he takes FOREVER to text back !
10. and when i ask him to do things for me he does him on impulse.
11. He always tells me things to better myself, like not to hold in my sneezes.
12. When him and his buddies were eating with me, they all left and he stayed until I was finished.
13. He gets self consious looking when I look at him, and when I try to make eye contact, he wont look or he'll walk away.
14. He laughs at everything I say or at least smiles.
Anyway, he gives me so many mix signals and im not sure if hes just being nice so he can be a good friend, or if he secretly likes me. Does he? -
He likes you....he's just a little shy.
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