I noticed this.
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Thread Topic: I noticed this.
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I do not have a lot of friends, and do not I have enemies.
I get along with many kinds of people, from your 'outcasts', simply because I enjoy the company of people that most people would see as 'weird' because I like different, I like variaty in personality, all the way up to the kinds of people that tend to think they have superiority over every person they know just because they are 'popular'. Not an excuse to be a jerk and I appreciate that they keep their mouth shut when I'm around, or that they actually learn when I tell them to get their act straight.
But I do not have a lot of people consider friends. Most people to me are just people I have met and spoken with a little, so they're more at a neutral state. I don't hate people, I do not even dislike anyone. But I do dislike people's actions and decisions. Just because someone messes up once, does not mean you should sit and criticize them or argue or even ignore them. When someone acts a certain way, I take that as a way of they need help or guidance, and I offer, no matter who it is.
Yet sometimes it is hard, even for me. I don't like to deal with people that will just attack my sexuality all the time or make fun of my boyfriend. He can be a real girl, but he is beautiful and unique. I don't know anyone else like him. That is mainly the only time I will not offer, sometimes I might later, but not if they are going to just..get that personal with me when I am trying to help.
I do not tolerate Asian jokes when they're directed towards me. I had people who made jokes when I first got my driver's license, ya know cause Asians are 'bad drivers'. I heard a lot of the 'small penis' jokes when I first started doing sports where you usually could shower afterward, in which they found out differently and were extremely embarrassed. I hear cracks about gay men all the time that are not directed towards me and those are the ones that hurt. It's like saying that I am not allowed to love and be with my boyfriend just because he is a male. I could not live without Jay to support me, and I can tell he feels the same.
Truth is, I am always here to listen and hear people out on their problems, I can be very forgiving, don't take advantage of that, but just remember that if all you're going to do is insult me on a personal level, I'm not even going to bother trying unless you will cooperate with me. Make whatever insults you want, but if you try to get personal and dig under my skin, then I am not hearing it.
Wow...That's long. Gomenasai! You don't need to read this or reply or anything. ^^;
I thought it would be a simple way to talk a bit to myself and notice parts of my personality and how I can be, since I do not usually acknowledge how I can be sometimes. And I always wondered why people said I was too nice. I did not expect it to be so long... -
Nice :3 we need more people like you here!
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hanxbmx Juniorsorry if this is a long post, but i just need to vent and rant about some things.
so im not entirely wanted by many people at my school. the school is mainly divided into the dutch people who hang out together and then the others. and of course, i am not dutch...not even close. so i am a bit left out. to make it even worse, i ruined my reputation in 7th and 8th grade because my friends pulled me into drama.
some of my closest friends are even getting into fights with me and as of sunday night, i do not have a best friend any more. some of my other close friends who are new to our school are even leaving my small group of friends. in 8th grade, my best and closest guy friend left my shcool at the end of the year. now im left with no best friend in high school and theres tons of drama thats getting blamed on me.
honestly its all hard and everything but i am just waiting for the day when everything changes.
i have crushes that think im the weirdest person ever. and friends who think im plain weird too. but its kinda seems strange to me, because i feel like i am a very average person... -_-
well thats all i have to say.... feel free to not respond if you dont wanna. just no hate
if you have any questions about life, iv been told im really good at giving advice -
@Stitched Thank you. I hope I can inspire people in time. c:
@hanxbmx I'm sorry, darling, of course I'll respond.
I believe there is no such thing as weird, just different, and it's good to be different from the 'normal' generation seeing what has started to become. The thing about friends and 'groups' is that you don't need to be in a specific place. Expand your interests and try to find friends who you know will be there for you. As for drama, I'm a guy and I don't like to get into it, but my boyfriend can be very defensive so he can probably give you some advice on that. But if those people acted like that, then they are not good friends, and they do not deserve friends if all they are going to do is throw them under the bus just because they do not want to take responsibility.
Just stay strong and ignore that garbage. Remember, it does get better. c: -
Im like alot of what you put up there Thorned. Im a person who sticks up for people when they get picked on because I was in many times in there shoes. I hate how popular people think that just because they dress all rich and stuf doesnt mean you rule over me. I also hate when people crack freaking Hispanic jokes around me. I mean seriously Im an American just like them. I swear some Americans are bias to Hispanics. I usually just ignore some of the things they say. Im very...oh how would I put this... diffrent than most of the people I hang around with. Im awkward when im around people because im seriously anti social because of my childhood prblems but that doesnt mean im not human.
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I am actually considered the original term for popular. Well-loved, known by many, favored by many. So I do not put jerks under the same category as myself, but I do see what you are getting at and remember to always be yourself, and let no one tell you different.
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