Are you transgender (FtM)? | Comments
Below are comments submitted by GoToQuiz.com users for the quiz Are you transgender (FtM)?
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I got 72%. I am honestly confused and a little terrified . Maybe its just the late night emotions but I have been identifying as trans for a little over two years now, Im pre everything, and confused. I feel I want a deeper voice and flat chest but I do enjoy some of my more feminine body aspects like thick thighs and a soft face. I dont know where to identify as a trans guy or non binary. I think I feel gender dysphoria but what if Im wrong? What if its something else Im feeling? De-transitioners videos really scare me because Ive already felt so much paIn and really dont want to feel any more. My twitter and instagram is transtiddies if anyone wants to talk.
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I'd try and ask another transgender person, friend, or something, they will probably help a lot, there's also gender therapy or something, I don't remember what to call them, there are also books and articles made about gender dysphoria which will also help you understand your gender identity and just gender in general
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i feel the same @bwep thats why im trying to wait to tell my parents but its kinda hard when Im starting to develop... um more feminine features that i hate so much i got 79% btw
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Do you know any good books for people who think they might be trans? Im not sure but I have always hated being a girl and felt I was a boy. I got 94% but I still dont know and want to see if theres any other thing s I could identify as that might suit me more :/
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You should read the book "sorted" by jackson bird or "I wish you all the best" by Mason deaver (sorted is a book jackson wrote about his journey through FtM) (I wish you all the best is a nonbinary story)
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I'm feminine but still a trans male and I have an 87% I've learned to always be feminine and I was forced to wear dresses, at first I hated it but now I embrace it and sometimes "female" clothing Is the more comfortable option at least for me and I'm planning on going on hormones as soon as I move out and get settled. I like my curves and my soft face and I'm planning on keeping them as long as I can, you don't have to choose.
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I got 87% percent and its all i could wish for. I am being called he/they currently and my name has changed as well as my hair length, and i know i definitely want top surgery when it is possible. Sometimes I like to wear more feminine clothing like knee high socks or skirts (skirts extremely rarely). I know some transgender males do this, so I'm comfortable with that. I wear mostly hoodies to help hide my chest more than my chest bind does, but i really only have dysphoria about my chest and face shape. Sometimes my thighs, but not really. Don't get me wrong, if there was a button i could press to change myself into a genetic male, i definitely would, but i just have doubts about it sometimes. I don't want to make the change and regret it, even though i'm miserable the way i am now. I honestly have no idea why i'm writing this here, i just need to get it all out lmao
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The same dude, you probably won't see this but If there was a button I would DEFINITELY press that button 1000000 times. I think "Yes I want to be a boy" But then I have doubts about regretting and I'm not 100 sure yet, I always worry about "will guys see me as a guy? would they actually choose me over a cis guy? would I even look good as a guy?" And then I doubt then I restart the cycle. It's so confusing even though I'm only 13 I just want to know who I am so I can start being me. Good luck to you though.
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Same here, if there was a button " change into a boy " I would think 3 seconds, an then press it .people call me she but a few guys in my classe call me Reiley so it's fine. But I do hang around whit girls, so it doesn't help ( a reason why I hang whit girls is probably because I'm gay ) but the girls I hang whit know that I'm FtM, one of them is bisexual and they still call me she. I dont get it. For my parents its different they don't know I'm trans ( though my clothes aren't feminine at all ).
Good luck for every one, be who you are not who you look like!
Reiley1
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I got 72% and I have spoken about being the person who I want to be to my mom but since she's religious she didn't accept me and thought I was just going through a phase and I'm insecure about wearing girl clothes and I'm insecure about my female parts. But I tried to be a girl but it isn't working. I really want to run away to my friends house so she can help me turn into my true self a boy. I'm not really sure anymore. I don't wanna lose my family for something I want cause it seems selfish. And now I don't know what to do. I really need some advice..
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I relate, ive also tried being a girl. Everybody around me always pressure me into being "a girl" they say i dont act like a girl. My parents are religious as well, i have never said anything to them but the way they talk about lgbtq stuff makes me believe they'd never accept me. I dont want to loose my family but i also want to be myself and be in a body im comfortable with.
I really feel you.
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If your parents hate you for it they are the ones who chose to lose you and it would not be your fault. If they don't except you they don't need to be in your life. Hope you start to except yourself soon
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I have had a girl's name for all of my 15 years of living and sometimes, it just feels so wrong. I already look somewhat masculine, (broad shoulders, thick-ish eyebrows, square jaw, little/no hips, etc.) but I still have some uhh... not exactly small breasts. I've tried to bind them with various things(except bandages, I tried it once, NEVER AGAIN) and they just will not flatten out at all. I'm not even entirely sure I am trans, as I don't really mind being somewhat feminine, but I'm definitely not a girl anymore. I might be non-binary??
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I got 74% and Im not too surprised honestly, more so scared. Id love to transition and become more comfortable with my body, but I heard that the health side affects can be awful. Owning a binder and getting my hair cut sounds like a dream, but with how feminine my face looks I dont think Ill ever be able to pass as a boy. My family is pretty religious, too, so Ill likely never live this down either. I think what Ill have to do is just buy some things in private to make me appear more boyish, maybe practice talking in a lower voice, hopefully makeup will help with my feminine face, too, and while I may never be happy with my feminine physique, I can at least try to appear differently. Thank you for making this quiz, it definitely helped to settle my thoughts a bit more.
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My Tip: Just cut your hair! It'll grow so fast if you dont like it and it looks most of the time better than expected! So in my case :) Just put on what you want. In the worst case they're gonna call you a lesbian or something
Luk2
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I got 87%. Honestly I did know. Ive always secretrly refered to myself as male. Back when I was in kindergarten I used to tell my friends that I was a boy, my parents didnt like that, and would scold when hearing someone refer to me as a boy, so eventually I stopped. I've always enjoyed being with boys and dressing up like one. Ive never been in a relationship but I know I like boys. My parents are too religious and homophobic. Im afraid to even raise this kind of topic with them, but it is painful, recently ive been depressed, i even feel uncomfortable going outside and being seen. I don't like my body, I dont even like seeing myself in the mirror, i just feel like im looking at someone else. I would really love to transition and be a male.
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I got 87% and honestly Im not surprised. Ive came out to my parents and friends but not my brother or teachers. Im 14 and Ive realized that Ive never like girly things. Even as a kid. Id use my brothers toys and never play with my dolls, Id always wear my brothers clothes in and out of the house, and i even use to sleep with my shirt off and only pants. Ive also never liked my chest or thighs. Granted I could lose some weight but even if that doesnt make my breasts or thighs get to the point of where I want them. I really want to get top surgery because I just hate it. Idk about bottom still considering just packing. But nonetheless I want to look like a guy. Have features like a guy, have a deeper voice, etc. my name is Matt, I am 14 years old, and I am ftm trans.
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I refer to myself as Trans but sometimes I am scared to do so. I like having a flat chest and short hair but i prefer to keep some of my feminine traits like my height, voice, face shape, etc. I prefer to be more of a 'soft' or 'small' boy, not a girl in anyway. I don't like the thought of bottom surgery but I would like top surgery. Let's just say I don't want really manly traits like deep voice, facial hair, etc. There for i guess that quiz is pretty accurate. <3
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I don't really know how I'm feeling or what I'm feeling like is it dysphoria? Do I just not like my body? Like I know im feeling something but I have no idea what- I got 81% and idk;-;
A lot of people in my school are trans (but some are faking it and it's obvious) and I want to ask them questions but idk how they will react, will they think im stupid, weird, etc.
My dad doesn't agree with the LGBT community (me, my sis and my mom are 100% supportive but the only supportive in my family along with one of my aunties from each side (mom and dad)) and I barely see him, we already have a distant relationship when I came out as bi and the same when my sister did, I talked to my mom about this and she said it might be a phase but if not she doesn't care as long as im happy. I don't want to disappoint my dad again.
I don't know why I wanted to share this, and you can ignore it obviously, but I just really wanted to say this. Thank you for reading ^^
Remember; for whatever reason you're here for, you're completely valid and deserve respect!
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I got 63%
Tho I am only 13 I felt like being a male for a year now , but sometimes I do enjoy being a girl as well
I thought to myself that it's just a phase but now I keep thinking deeper and deeper and I just feel like I want to at least try being a male
Whenever I think about being a boy I just like it , but I'm into boys and people told me I HAVE to be lesbian to be trans
Yeah that's bulls--- but I believed it , but I hope I can come out someday when I'm not so confused.
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Wait omg im 13 too and have been dealing with this same thing, one day I asked my mom if I could get a pixie cut to be slick with it and she yelled at me and kept asking me why i wanted to look like a boy so I've stayed silent ever since. I keep wanting to hear someone call me a boy name or call me he/him, idk if this is just a phase but its been a year and a half so idk i need answers but im glad i found someone who relates to me kinda ( I got 68% btw)
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Same boat
My dad says that he will never let me get a pixie.
All I can think is why can guys have short hair but girls can't #kindaofsexiest
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I hate my breasts, voice, thighs, hips, and genitalia. And when my parents call me by my birth name I feel discomfort and anxiety. When I speak loudly my voice kinda sounds light but even know it doesn't sound girly it still gives me discomfort and anxiety. And every time I see my breasts I wish I could rip them off and the thought of having thick thighs, big breasts, wide hips, a tiny girl voice, and a fat, feminine face disgusts me. And I like having facial hair, having short hair, and wearing all masculine clothing and I don't like the thought of wearing feminine clothing and wearing thigh highs ugh disgusting. And I really wish I wasn't afraid of going to the boy's bathroom instead of just using the nurse's.
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I got 91%, and, tbh, I'm not suprised. I have been "Out" to my teachers, friends, and parents, but not the rest of my large family yet. I am 13, and I hate my chest. There is a time, where I get super self conscious if I don't wear my 3 sports bras, the closest things I can get to binding, since my mom refuses to get me a binder, and I get very down and depressed. I don't mind so much about my bottom parts, but I don't mind as much as my chest, since its not like someone is just gonna stare at my crotch and see that there's not a bulge, since I'm in middle school, and people tend to look waist up. I don't mind it as much, my bottom parts I mean, but I would much rather prefer being called my male name, William, along with having male parts, and with a male voice, something else I get very self conscious about as well. With that being said, is there a way I can train my voice, untill I get testosterone, to make it sound deeper?
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Hello I read yours and I'm Carly I prefer Kyle but anyway you are like me you don't have to get a binder you can try bandages and a bra with no padding it works I come out to my mum and step dad in April when I was in year 8 my mum told me she knew I wasn't in the right body from the start cause I use to put my dad's clothes on but when I'm out shopping with my friend they tell me to close my eyes and they take me to the boy section and help me pick an outfit I never new what I was but since I'm a bit older now I'm 14 now I have started to be abit more masculine and I am stared to feel more comfortable with my body I never use to like going in the boy section but now I just walk straight in there as if I am full boy and no one looks at me oddly but what I'm trying to say it try a bandage and a non padded bra I'm carly - Kyle I'm 14 x hope this gave u abit more confidence x
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I got 83% I came out as Trans (F/M) but i'm still kind of confused. I experience gender dysphoria and I would like to identify as male. But because of my father treating me like a princess my whole life is making me angry for being Trans. I will be okay though. I still have high school and well the rest of my life to figure myself out. Anyway that's enough ranting for now. Thanks to anyone that's actually reading this.
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I think I have gender dysphoria. It's complicated, so my parents force me to be a girl because they kinda hate trans people, so I'm thinking of coming out in two years or so, (when I am closer to being able to move out), just in case if they want to kick me out and leave me on the streets. I honestly want top and bottom surgery to look more masculine, but I'm non-binary right as we speak. I need help on deciding on telling my parents, or not. I also need help from the trans people who got top and bottom surgery to tell me if it's worth it to be myself... Thank you to all whom reply to this, and sorry for the long comment! Have a wonderful day to everyone! :3
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Dude I feel exactly the same. It makes me so unsure about myself like: am I really trans when I felt like a girl and dressed pretty feminine a few years ago( Im now turning 17)
Im really happy that I found your comment. I guess there are a few of us that just start so realize at an older age. :)
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I got 63% and I'm confused,,,I'm 17 and I'm a "I suppose pretty" girl but I always felt uncomfortable like something is missing. I do like my body but sometimes I want to be a boy. I don't mind people calling me by he/him pronouns and wearing a binder but i don't want to undergo any surgeries. I tried a relationship where my bf address me as a boy in private and I liked it a lot. I don't understand,, I wish to keep my female qualities but identify as a boy. Im scared and confused,, I've pushed this thoughts and feelings down since I was 13,,what am i?
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Hey Andy! Just wanted to let you know that you can still be transgender and not go through any physical transition. Youre valid either way! You could possibly be gender-fluid or nonbinary, but also just be a trans male who is fine with only socially transitioning. Hope this helped!
Gabs17011
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I got 100%. Im a little confused and surprised to be honest. I indentified as non-binary for a long time, but then a couple of my friends came out as trans and I started questioning my gender. I talked to one of my trans friends, and he actually helped a lot! He talked to me about genders, pronouns and preferred names. I started to go by gender-fluid after that but Im still not sure even that feels right. I do go by he/they pronouns right now and I changed my name a couple weeks ago. Still partly confused but idk.
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I got 83% but Im not completely sure, my sister came out as trans a few years ago and my family didnt take it well, my dad gets angry when he doesnt understand something and is more than a little transphobic. Im only a teenager so I cant get out of a bad situation if they dont support me, I dont know what to do.
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You are not alone. There are hundreds of thousands of others who are going through the same situation as you. You have so much life ahead of you. Find a support group, and get helpful advice. Don't give up; there are always more options. You are you, and no one can change that. I am also a teenager, so when I came out to my mom as Genderfluid and possibly trans, I was TERRIFIED. But when I told her, I felt better. Keep a diary to express your thoughts. And if your family has trouble with your coming out as trans, I would suggest a Gender therapist to help them understand and aid and love you along your journey. You are loved. Never forget that. I pray for you and your sister. Good luck!!! :)
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You just found someone in the same boat
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I got almost 80% and honestly I'm not surprised although I probably identify as nonbinary more. Im 14 and sometimes i wear a chest binder until it scratches off my skin where it closes and I have to take it off. I hate my high pitched voice like hell just like feminine clothes more specific skirts/dresses. The thing is, there has been a lot going on at home and I dont know what to do next
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I got 85%. Not sure if its Kat might emotions but Im honestly thinking about coming out to my parents and siblings as trans or genderfluid, I already have a binder.. Im still feminine though, like id Still probably wear girly clothing like longer hoodies in pastel shades, excetera. Im I just non-binary? Genderfluid? I think Im either trans or genderfluid.
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Well, there are feminine transgender guys out there. It's not too hard to find them. Though, you may be non-binary, as you said. I don't know you that well, after all, so I'm not trying to assume. I hope you find out what you are and end up feeling comfortable with yourself.
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I got 81%. I am a Trans Demi-boy so Im this is quite accurate. When I was younger, I would label myself as a tomboy because I didnt know anything about trans people nor gay people. I would hangout with guys and I wanted to be one them. I thought I couldnt be a boy because I was AFAB, back in elementary and middle school. I am now a freshman in high school. Ive discovered my gender identity by searching I feel like a boy and I discovered the transgender identity as well other identities last summer, Demi-boy seemed to best fit me and it feels so right. I randomly did this quiz even though I know I am trans. I am 15. I want top surgery, I dont really care about bottom surgery. I want to go on testosterone gel. I like dressing somewhat feminine or androgynous sometimes but I usually dress masculine. Welp thats my story. :)
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I dont know how to feel about this, I got a 55% but I dont know if its a dysphoria or anything, Im scared to ask the people I know because I dont want everyone to respect me only for me to say Im not what i was telling them. Im young, still in middle school, but for the last few months Ive been questioning it and decided to ask the internet. For the past few days Ive been going to my bathroom and bandaging my chest, it has made me feel content and happy but I dont know if its just me being curious about my body or my sexuality.
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So I got 61% but I've always considered myself a girl;;
Idk I l feel like I have a pretty deep voice for a 13 year old girl and I act masculine/think masculine but like some of you guys have said, my parents are Christians and apparently trans/gays/lesbian aren't good according to the bible or somethin??? Idk at this point but they won't take it I have the feeling ;n;
I wish I could be treated as a male/look like a male, but if I'm not supported and I have no idea how my family will react, how am I supposed to feel?? If I say something and get shot down, me being me will forget the whole idea and I worry that I'll live my life as a girl and only be half-happy.
I like how my hair/face/things look, I don't mind (but would be okay with changes to) my bottom area, but I absolutely hate it when somebody mentions my breasts and how I'm "growing into a woman" and stuff. I go be she/her and I'm fine but maybe a change? Like I said, I don't have internal support, my tulpa are shoving me through hate, and I need a new voice inside. It's killing me. They won't leave...
Enough about that, though, thank you for reading! ^^
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It will all be ok guys. If you are considered non binary and feel like u want top surgery or to take testosterone and transition, do it! I heard about a non binary guy that did the top surgery and takes testosterone. Im a 12 year old coming out as trans and I seem like a girly person. Im not no matter what people think, I am a male and if u want to be, so are u!
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I got 89% I have been out somewhat as a trans male for more than 2 years now. Most of my friends and family members accepted me, but some still say that I should go talk to a therapist before deciding. I totally agree it would be good for me to have a professional opinion, but I know mind and soul that I am a male!!!
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Same here my dude. Yeah, it is good to get therapy to confirm, but if ya feeling male in mind and soul, then go for it.
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I got 76%
To be honest, I'm always stuck with my gender. I feel uncomfortable when I'm called she/her, but when someone calls me he/him I feel happy. What's weird is that when I think about surgeries I could have in the future, it makes me feel a bit weird. I sometimes feel feminine too, which makes me feel weird.
I'm a mess. Rip-
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Feeling femme is completely different from being a female, some people also feel uncomfortable about surgeries, I'm not saying you are trans, I'm completely on board with the suggestion of going to therapy to be completely sure
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I knew I was a transgender woman ftm
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Ho ottenuto il 74% e sinceramente sono un po' spaventato, non perch io potrei essere un ragazzo, anzi, mi trovo pi a mio agio a usare pronomi maschili, vestirmi, comportarmi come un maschio e fin da piccolo ho mostrato pi interesseto ad attivit un po' pi maschili, solo che i miei mi hanno sempre allontanatk da questa situazione.
Ora sono in una situazione di confusione, e vorrei solo un po' pi chiarimenti
Michel1
