Did I do something wrong?

Break-ups are life changing events that aren't usually taken lightly. Even if you were the one doing the dumping, it will still effect you on some level. Now that you have called it quits with your boyfriend, you are probably wondering where do you go from here? There are various scenarios that could occur after breaking up. Let's take a look at some common ones.

When my boyfriend just broke up with me I had this inner drive to talk to him. That's all I wanted because I honestly believed that if I could have just a few minutes of his undivided attention I could convince him that we were meant to be together. Speaking from experience I can tell you that this is not the right approach. If you have resorted to calling your ex crying or pleading with him to take you back, you have to make a promise to yourself that you won't do it again. No late night calls asking him to talk, no long emails explaining what you are feeling and no text messages trying to get his attention.