How assertive are you?

Some people are very assertive. These are people who aren't afraid to share their own opinions with people, even if they differ, and they also aren't afraid to speak up when something is bothering them.

And some people are total pushovers. These are people who are easily taken advantage of, and they usually don't speak up if something is bothering them, and they don't like sharing their opinions. And then some people are in between.

Created by: ThatOnePlatypus

What do you do if someone has a different opinion than you?
- I change mine so it's closer to theirs
- I don't share my opinion
- I respectfully share my opinion
- I FITE
What do you do if someone is picking on you?
- Nothing
- Call them out
- Tell my friends but say nothing to the bully
- Get help
- I FITE
In school, how often do/did you raise your hand to answer a question?
- Never
- A few times
- A good number of times
- A lot
- Always
What do you do if you have questions about some assignment you have to do?
- Ask
- Ask someone else around me
- Not ask unless it's absolutely essential
- Not ask
- I'll ask a few questions but try not to ask too many
Imagine you're planning some party, and the other people want to have food you're allergic to.
- I tell them I'm allergic and would like to think of something else
- I just go with it, I can eat before/after the party
- I tell them as long as not everyone wants that food
- I make other suggestions, not mentioning I'm allergic, and just hoping they choose something I can eat
Imagine you're at school and you have to do a dreaded group project. None of the other members in your group participate.
- I say nothing to them, but tell the teacher
- I tell them they need to help with the project, but if they don't, then I'll tell the teacher
- I tell them to work on the project but if they don't, then I just deal with it
- I scream at them loudly to work on the project
- Nothing, It's ok, I can just do it myself
- Do it all yourself, but refuse to give the others any credit
You're having a conversation with your friends, but the conversation has made an uncomfortable turn.
- Maybe I'll say something if it gets more uncomfortable...
- I tell them I'd like to talk about something else
- I drop some hints that I'm feeling uncomfortable
- I refuse to say anything about the topic
- I don't tell them
- I yell at them
What do you do if you're in a meeting and someone interrupts you?
- Ask them to not do that
- Interrupt them back
- Make passive-agressive comments about it
- Ask your boss to do something about the interrupty person, but say nothing to the person
- Nothing
- Start shouting at them
You're playing a game with your friends, and you catch someone cheating.
- I'll let it go the first time, but if it happens again, I'll call them out
- Call them out
- I'll call them out if someone else does too
- I'll tell another friend I saw the friend cheat but say nothing to the cheater
- I do nothing
- I freak out and flip the table
Something your partner/S.O does is bothering you.
- I'll bring it up if they do that thing a lot or if it really affects me
- Talk to them about it
- Give them the silent treatment and only say something if they ask you what's going on
- Not say anything about it
- Tell my friends, but not my partner/S.O
How confident are you about expressing completely different opinions than someone else to that person?
- 1 (not at all)
- 2-3
- 4-5
- 6-7
- 8-9
- 10
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How long does it take you to bring up an issue with a friend? (Like if they're doing something that bothers you, how long does it take you to address it?)
- After the first few times it happens
- The first time it happens
- It depends on how much the thing they do hurts me
- Six months?
- I don't think I ever say anything...
Do people ever call you a pushover?
- Always
- Sometimes
- Not often/rarely
- Never
Do you think you're a pushover?
- Yes. 100%
- Kind of
- A little bit
- Not at all
Do people ever take advantage of you?
- All the time
- Often
- Sometimes
- Once
- No, never
What do you do if you catch someone trying to take advantage of you?
- Say nothing
- Call them out
- Call them out, but it's usually too late by then...
Your friends want you to try drugs with them.
- I don't want to, but I'm also too scared to refuse...
- Maybe I'd say something...
- I'd suggest doing something else, but if they insist in trying drugs...I guess a little couldn't hurt
- Refuse
- Refuse and go home
- Yell at them and attract a crowd
If you see someone being picked on, do you stand up for the victim?
- No...
- It depends on how big and scary the bully/bullies are
- Yeah, but I back down quickly
- Yes, and I'll stand our ground until the bully quits
- I bite the bully
You're going to have two kids, but your partner/S.O wants to name both.
- Let them name both...
- Each of you names one
- I'm naming both
You're at a restaurant, and the waiter brings you the wrong order.
- Tell them
- I'm too embarrassed to tell them and I just leave
- I say nothing
- I only tell them if the order is completely different from what I wanted
You're hanging out at your friend's house, but the neighbor's super loud music is bothering you.
- Make phallac art on their lawn
- Go to their house and ask them to turn their music down
- Call the cops
- Ask my friend to go over and ask to turn the music down
- Do nothing
Your friend asks you if you like their outfit. You hate it. You tell them...
- I love it!
- It doesn't really suit you
- I don't like it but that's just me
- It's ugly and you should burn it
- Yeah it's okay
- Nice!

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