What is your sexuality?
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How do you label your sexuality? And if you aren’t straight, how did you come out? Was it difficult for you? I’d like to hear your stories if you’re comfortable.
When I was little, I was a bit of an odd ball… I wanted to play with girls toys. I liked painting my nails. Just stuff like that. My dad was very disapproving of it, but my mom always supported me. When I was about 13-14, I wanted to be a girl because I thought it would make things easier for me. So online I started identifying as a female and using she/her pronouns. A lot of you probably don’t know about this because I haven’t told many people. Since I was so feminine, my dad thought I was gay and he was very homophobic and that caused a lot of issues. I used to identify as bisexual, but nowadays I don’t really label my sexuality. I know I’m attracted to whoever I’m attracted to and love is love -
I'm straight and heterosexual, although there was a brief time where I was questioning that. I thought that I had "crushes" on some of my female friends, but after watching some videos I understand that I just really liked them, platonically speaking. I had no desire to be in a relationship with any of them, but I just really enjoyed their company and misinterpreted what that meant lol
Very much into dudes in that sense, but I love my gal pals dearly and you don't have to love someone romantically to truly care for them -
Im a lesbian and haven’t come out to anyone I know in person.
How I realized I was a lesbian was really stupid. In the third grade I hade a crush on a girl who was my neighbor and best friend. 3 years later we are both about to move countries and she tells me she had a crush on me at that time which made me realize that I had hade a crush on her. This is pretty normal but the funny part is that even after that I still thought I was straight, I don’t know how. My guess is that at that point I hade just established it for myself and was to lazy to reassess. Fast forward a year and im chilling in winter break and I stumble across lgbt YouTube, and I was suddenly put 1+1 together and realized that if I hade a crush on a girl, and I’m a girl, I’m not straight.
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So I’m conclusion I’m an idiot who is way to lazy to figure her life out :) -
ive always felt rlly split abt this topic. on one hand, i feel like i love whoever i love, and on another, just the thought of being in a relationship and being vulnerable really scares me. that’s why anytime i get a crush i just immediately start avoiding it which caused a lot of problems throughout my life and left me questioning my orientation
i don’t like labels tho, so i jus leave it as loving whoever appeals :] -
i don’t like labels tho, so i jus leave it as loving whoever appeals :]
Same thing here -
i'm aromantic and asexual.
i have very little romantic attraction. i have been in several relationships where i thought i have loved the person, but every time, i fall out of love just as fast as i fell into it. recently though, i found my partner and we've been together since march. if my partner and i ever break up, i don't think i will date again. -
Straight
But I love all humans
Not in romantic way but I treasure my friends dearly -
Biromantic but contemplating if i'm Asexual :p
I came out to myself last year when i got a crush on a female friend. I had been strictly straight until my crush came out as trans, making me question myself, then i got another crush on that girl. For months i hid that i was bi from my mom, who had told me "while you live under my roof you are what god made you." Until October of last year, i had been single, but then my trans crush asked me out, and we've been dating ever since. Finally, one day on the way to school, i asked my mom "how would you feel if i was bi, mom?" And she stared at me, then said "I am too, i'm fine with it." GEEZ AAAAA!! Her bf had told me he supported me months before, and i guess he knew i was bi before i even did. I had put my phone down, which was paused on a video, showing a random girl i can't even remember. My mom's BF though it was a pic of a girlfriend, and told me he'd support if i was bi/gay. So i guess he knew. -
i’m lesbian and the way i found out is kind of silly but
i was like 9 and was watching a progressive commercial (like, the insurance)
and i saw that flo girl and i was like “… she’s…. kind of. She’s kind of….. attractive.,,,,,.,” .
i used to identify as bisexual but after putting more thought into it, i realized that i’m not actually attracted to guys like at all LMAO. like some fictional ones… ? but that doesn’t make me any less lesbian cause i’d never actually *date* a guy.
nothing wrong with them though like love who u love. doesn’t bother me -
i also never rlly saw any like… attractiveness in men. NOT THAT I THINK THEY’RE UGLY. i’ve seen a lot of nice looking guys.
i just only ever acted like i was attracted to them to fit in tbh..😭 -
I'm quoiromantic and asexual, which is under the aroace umbrella.
When I was 9, I had thought that I had a crush on my best friend. Turns out, it was purely platonic, and I had a squish on her (Basically I wanted to have a QPR with her since we were very close at the time). This happened with many of my friends, including Vio, who some of you may know since they used to use this website.
I have known I was asexual since I was 9 too, but I heavily rejected the idea until I was, like, 14, since I thought I was just "too young". Turns out, finding s*x gross is not a normal reaction, and I was, in fact, asexual.
I told my parents that I was bisexual when I was 10, and it went...eh. They used their stupid bulls--- excuse that they can't accept me because they're Christian, which is dumb as hell. But whatever. They came around eventually.
I came out again as pansexual when I was 13, and that went horribly wrong. Transphobia played a big factor in their reaction.
A few months ago, I finally came out as aroace, and that was almost as bad as when I came out as pan. Had my own dad be acephobic and tell me that everyone experiences sexual and romantic attraction, even though I knew I didn't. He acted like he knew me better than I knew myself, which is a f---ing lie.
so yeah. not fun. -
I’m lesbian but it isn’t really that big of a story.
I started having romantic feelings for my best friend when I was eight and my bestie was a girl so I wanted to become lesbian but I thought I was too young so I waited til I was thirteen and decided to become lesbian and everyone was fine with it and had no problem,so,yea -
I am straight.
I like guys
I love my besties but not in a romantic way
I’m glad that I’m straight bc if I wasn’t I would be disowned or dead. *bows* thank you *walks off imaginary stage* -
Pansexual (questioning)
Coming out was funny…. My mom was helping me study and did the sign for bisexual. I told her that it was the bi sign and she said I did it all the time. I just didn’t say anything and tried not to laugh. She realized and then my parents took me to a pride parade.
Coming out to my friends was just me saying I was gay, and then my friend just slowly handed my other friend a $20 bill. They were betting on when I’d come out🤣 -
Bisexual
I came out to my mother when I told her I am non-binary, boy that was a crazy night.
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