How to have the perfect relationship
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Thread Topic: How to have the perfect relationship
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Meet person
Befriend person
If feelings grow, ask person on date
Spend time with person
Be good to person
Person be good to you
Develop love for person (and vice versa)
Become loyal and committed to person (and vice versa)
Live with person forever
Boom
Love and Happiness forever, the perfect relationship -
That's accurate
until five years later when the relationship is hanging on a thread, and they've been secretly cheating on you with your best friend
^ but that only happens to some people -
That's where the loyalty and commitment comes in
'Tis not a perfect relationship without it
But yes, f--- people who cheat, they don't deserve happiness with another person unless they change their ways. -
There are 'no perfect' relationships ... So there's no need to even try to have a perfect one.
So one should just be themselves and if the partner doesn't like it, f--- them! ... Find someone who'll love you for your crazy self "not the psycho killing self tho'" -
I never said anything about changing yourself either. So I don't know why you think bringing in the "be yourself" cliche is important.
And if "being yourself" is a person that cheats and leads someone on, that's probably not a good thing anyway.
Truth is that nothing is perfect, sure. So I guess you could call this a...top tier relationship. -
I heard somewhere that relationships that last are usually people that were friends 1st before dating.
I also heard that the divorce rate is super high now so idk
Relationships would be so easy if the other person followed your list but the guys I've been with cant seem to do that.. -
lol I never said that "being yourself" meant the cheating/leading someone on self ... Of course cheating is a big "NO and its completely wrong
But what I meant by "being yourself" is just be 'you' - "be happy and joyful. Kind and respectful towards your partner . Make the person fall in love with 'you' "
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